This goes to all my selfshippers who have male F/Os and are scared of men IRL bc of trauma related to men (myself included). This is very specific but I hope it can help someone <:
tw: slight references to domestic and psychogical abuse
Your f/o would never ever hurt you in any way, you're his light, his love and he would break apart if something bad happened, even more if he were to be the cause of it.
He'll never yell at you or raise his voice in the slightest if you messed a little bit in x task. He'll kiss you on the forehead and tell you that he loves you.
He'll never judge you, belittle your emotions and tell you to suck it up if you're having bad days. He'll gadly listen to you, if it helps you feel better, he's happy.
If you need a hug, a squeeze, a kiss or any form of physical affection, he will give it to you. He won't back away if you ask for love.
He understands if you approaching him is difficult for you, he's patient and lets you know about it, there's no rush.
He will never make you do something you're uncomfortable with, unless it's for your well-being, for example going to the doctor and helping you take any kind of medication you may need.
He will check on you if you start avoiding him. He asks you what's wrong and won't get mad at whatever the answer may be.
Whoever your parental F/O may be, he's super proud of you and always tells you about it, he praises your victories, no matter how small they may seem.
(keep in mind that this post is not intended to hate on men <3)
