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What's the difference between Hard limits and Soft limits?

Soft limits are things that either,

Stuff you can be convinced to do.

Stuff you personally aren't into, that you don't mind doing/ are willing to consider if your partner(s) is into it. Or,

Things that you'll only do when a certain level of trust is formed.

Hard limits are not negotiable. Something you are not comfortable doing at all even under punishment play/ boundary play etc.

Limits can change over time and communication is a part of natural and healthy relationship. If you want to change a limit make sure you inform your partner(s) and if your partner(s) comes up to you saying their thinking of changing one of their limits, respect their wishes and respect their decision, even if you personally don't agree with it.

#❥ educational post #kink education #sex safety #hard limits #soft limits #cw kink #bd/sm community #bd/sm education

a page in my little space journal—

my yes, no, maybe list ❤️

#yes no maybe #hard limits #soft limits #the daisy garden #consent & negotiations #little space journal #mine #disgusting daydreams #disgustingdaisy

I know they say fic should be indulgent... but this one...

Ugaritic praise poetry. Pablo Neruda. Sumerian love poetry in Sumerian. There’s, a lot of dialog in Latin. There’s a joke about the connotations of different latin words for ‘blowjob.’ There’s a joke about Catullus.

also now I want all the chapters to be titled after lines from ee cummings.

#i think its a really good idea #all i can really do now is lean into the aesthetic #my fic #wisteria fic #soft limits

Rules, Soft, and Hard Limits

Must be 18+

Like, reblog, stalk to your heart content

Hard limits are Hard for a reason, if you ask, do, or add onto a post of mine (that I wrote) you will be blocked

Send me an ask anytime I can't promise how long it will take to answer

I use they/them pronouns respect that or be blocked

Soft Limits

R4pe threats (I've never gotten one dont know how I feel about them)

Knife play with real knives

Bloodplay

Gunplay

Electrostimulation (my sub likes it)

Free use

Full restrain rope play

Fire play

Latex/rubber

Armpits

Hard Limits

Anal

Incestplay

Ageplay

Foot fetish content

Watersports

Mummification

CBT (on me)

Scat

#nsft #nsft sub #nsft rules #hard limits #soft limits

It really is telling how quickly governments are divesting from Russian assets. Like, where there's will and public pressure, it's a seamless move. It can be done. Hopefully it paves the way.

#climate change #fossil fuels #soft limits

Just posted a new chapter of Soft Limits. It’s a shorter chapter than usual, but Sam and Balthazar have some important conversations in it.

#fic update #Soft Limits #salthazar fic #Sam Winchester #Balthazar #Jimmyverse

Hello! I just wanted to say thanks again for writing Hard Limits. There's not nearly enough Sam/Balthazar, and it's one of my favourites. I'm so glad you decided to do a sequel for it, is there anything else you can tell us about it? Thanks again!

Aww. Thank you so much. I'm not suer when you sent this but I'm sorry if it's been sitting in my inbox without tumblr notifying me. The sequel Soft Limits is well underway now, and I'm so excited to finally be sharing this thing @wisteria-lodge and I have been working on for so long.

That said, this week's chapter is going be a little later than usual because it still needs a final polish on the editing. But it's a fun chapter and I think it'll be worth the wait.