What are some “hard no’s no matter what” in the bedroom? Doesn’t have to be the bedroom specifically, but intercourse altogether as well.
In no particular order:
Anything involving urine, feces, or vomit. I acknowledge that with force feeding or hard throat fucking, vomit might happen. If it does, everything stops, we clean up, I get some cuddle time because throwing up makes me feel ick
Any kind of cutting, piercing, burning... I am not a pain slut and don't like gore
No punching. Some slaps to my tits, belly, or ass are permitted but please gauge my pain tolerance, start soft and work up until you learn where my threshold is.
No cross contamination from anal to any other orifice. Wash it first before sticking it elsewhere after that.
I don't play with other pussies. I don't even like seeing my own. I absolutely do not want to go near any others. If you have a cuckquean, that's fine. She can watch. But I am not touching her.
No cross contamination with fluids from other vagina-havers.
Nothing illegal.
No incest play. I'm not calling anyone 'daddy' and not keen on being called 'mommy'.
Any kind of of breath play
Any kind of intox play (I am straight edge)
Absolutely no photos or videos of my face.
That should be most of it. I don't want to say it's exhaustive, because I am sure someone will come up with something that I have to add. But if anyone has some specific thing not listed that they want to know, just ask.
Hard and soft limits are crucial concepts in BDSM, emphasizing the importance of clear communication and consent. Your limits can change with time and may be different depending on who you are with. Here's a breakdown:
Soft Limits
Soft Limits can be activities you only do when a certain level of trust is built, with someone with experience or activities you don't enjoy and wouldn't normally do but will do if your partner wants to. You might enjoy light spanking but have a soft limit against being hit with a certain object.
Hard Limits
Hard limits can be anything, even things others would consider tame. These are things you absolutely will not engage in, under any circumstance.
“No limits”
You should always be cautious around people who claims to have no limits. People with “no limits” are often new to the scene, fantasists with little to no actual BDSM experience or uninformed about what limits are.
True consent in BDSM means understanding the potential risks and consequences of any activity. Someone claiming "no limits" may not be fully informed or capable of giving informed consent.
Hi am Celeste! I’m a transgender woman. Pronouns she/her/they/them. I’ve been transitioning for 6 years now. I’ve been involved in and constantly educating myself on bdsm for 5 years now. I’m a gothic bimbo! If it’s not pink and/or black I don’t want it.. I’ve been into bimofication for just as long as I’ve been transitioning but I’ve just recently like completely embrace and accept my bimbofication.
How I describe myself. Gothic bimbo, egirl gamer, D.I.D system, autistic, Poly, Pan, grey, queer, transfem, sub Am 30 from Oregon Single, but not an easy get. If u want me u better work for me. not one to fuck with. DM’s open atm 🥰. Really important part about me is my D.I.D. It stands for dissociative identity disorder. It basically means I’ve experienced so much trauma that my brain tends to literally slit creating multiple personalities/Alters. This personalities/alters are really people with their own stories and lived experiences. We can control switches (switches-switching between personalities/alters) sometimes but often I can’t control them and I even faint n black out for awhile. I also have extreme memory issues. For the most part we all (everyone in my system) have decided to try to work together to help communicate so we don’t loss so many memories but it’s not perfect. For protection of my system I don’t share names of alters with just about anyone. We also mainly live as a singlet (someone with one personality). That’s how we like it for now so just call me Celeste. If u want or need more into on D.I.D.. please research it yourself. Don’t force me to educate u on it.. Main kinks/fetishes. -Hypnosis -Submissive -Bimbofication -Dumbifaction -Dollifaction -Feminization -Sugar baby-Smoking -IQ play -Bondage -Biting -Spancking -CNC -Safewords -Praise -Humiliation -Blindfolds -Public play -Video game play -Honestly Other sub kinks I’m into. -Baby play -Pet play -Cow play Hard limits. -Piss or poop or vomit play -Blood play -Pedophilia -misogyny -Fairarms/most weapon play -Nonconsented grape -No messing with my eyes -alcohol -nonconsensual drugging me or friends -Chasity (tired it before n had bad experience. Definitely my preference.) -Cheating on your partner with me.(I won’t be ur secret. I live honestly.) -No long term injuring to my mind an/or body that I haven’t concentrated to before hand. -I reserve the right to add to my no list at anytime. If I feel uncomfortable or unsafe. Am out. Hope u enjoy watching my journey to become the bimbo I’ve always known I was. I just like forget! 🤭 tehe 🥰. Am not seeking out anything more then friendship but I’m open to other types of relationships. 😜 I’m poly after all. I enjoy spending the love around while staying honest with partners about any other partners. DM me if I wanna me friends or possible something more..? 🤷♀️ we’ll see how things go! 🥰🫶🏻😘
Actual Real-Life Homophobes, Transphobes, Racists, Rapists and Misogynists Fuck off and die! This is fantasy only. I’ll find out who you are and block you.
Asks are welcome from anyone. If you’re a curious Dom looking for tips or a Sub who wants to have some kinky interactions but want to stay anon, anyone with pussy is welcome for kink interactions too regardless of gender. Read more about my boundaries and limits below before submitting any questions or you may be ignored.
28 Cis Male, Canadian, Dom
GENERAL TRIGGER WARNINGS: I regularly include in my stories kinky and MADE UP/NOT REAL/ FANTASY depictions of Sexual Assault, Misogyny, Homophobia, Verbal abuse and Physical abuse. I add specific trigger warnings to my individual stories. If you feel triggered by something you read and I forgot to put in a warning please DM me and let me know.
I call myself straight but My sexuality is that I like pussy and I’m not really picky about whether the person who has it is a man or a woman. I do like Tits but also don’t care if you’re flat. Really, I have no set “Type” I like both femme and masc presenting people. Tomboys are just as hot to me as girls in cute dresses or tight outfits as an example.
My Boundaries are firm with strangers, I understand if you make mistakes or misread the pinned post but you get 1 warning before I block. Friends and Mutuals I’m a bit more forgiving with. But will still block if they push too far.
This blog just gives me a place to get shit out of my system. I volunteer a lot of my free time to support 2SLQBTQIA+ spaces and programs, but there’s been some internalized misogyny that has come up that I’m trying to deal with in a healthy way so it doesn’t get in the way of my volunteer work. Part dealing with that includes this blog.
I don’t have a crazy sexual history it’s just very diverse and I’ve experienced a variety of things. I’ve played out some Dykebreaking scenes a few times with consenting adults IRL it’s intense and takes planning and it is very draining but intensely hot and rewarding. I’m into more than just into Orientation play but that’s mostly what this blog will be.
I like writing, and I sext a lot. So this kink blog thing was just a natural extension of that.
NOW FOR THE IMPORTANT SHIT!
✅Into Roleplay, CNC, Orientation Play (Dykebreaking, Misgendering, and occasional Acebreaking), Humiliation, Cuckolding other men and/or Cuckquean, Abduction, Anon kink, Public Sex, Drugged/Intoxicated, sometimes Hypno is fun, Breath Play, light Impact play (No tools), Light Bondage and occasionally Anal. Very hot when women/girls call me “Daddy” but I’m not seeking out a DD/LG dynamic or into age-play. I’m sure there’s more, will edit as things change.
⚠️Soft Limits (Things I’m not actively Into but will explore with a TRUSTED partner or TRUSTED mutual.) are… Somno, Foot Stuff, Heavy Impact Play (w/tools such as whips or paddles) Complex Rope Play (Needs practice), Object Insertion, Lactation, Kigurumi, Impregnation
🛑Hard Limits:
Forced Feeding, Scat, Piss Play, Snuff, permanent Injury/disfigurement, Infantilism, Haematomania, Knife Play (I’ll use a knife or scissors to cut off your clothes if you want just don’t ask me to cut you.)Furry Play, Necrophilia, Beastiality, and Age Play.
When I begin a post or DM with “OOC:”it means I’m talking “Out Of Character” as a human being outside of the fantasy.
When I begin a post with “IC” it means I’m talking “In Character” almost all my posts are In Character, you will only see me specify this if It is a post where I switch back and forth between OOC and IC and have to clarify.
Example:
OOC: Be safe, Practice Rack. Fuck homophobes.
IC: Dumb dyke whore. How does it feel cumming on your rapists cock?
I will only share Private messages/DM’s on my blog if it has been previously agreed between me and the person on the other end of the DM’s.
If you don’t tell me a specific safe-word when we start interacting we use the stoplight system by default. If you have a preferred safe word then tell me.
GREEN = Yes keep doing that
YELLOW = Take it easy or be careful.
RED = IM SAFEWORDING STOP RIGHT NOW
LAST OF ALL! BE SAFE!
Safety Tips:
- Subs, Learn boundaries from more experienced Sub’s so you can learn the difference between abuse and kink.
- New Subs should read “The New Bottoming Book”
- New Doms should read “The New Topping Book”
- Don’t doxx yourself for any reason.
- Stay anonymous online
- Be aware of the risks of sending pics and giving out your name.
- Practice RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink)
- If you are going to do something potentially dangerous then be aware of the potential dangers and put safeguards in place to minimize them.
That's a hard pass for me there are a few things I will absolutely not write and they are:
1.) Shoutacon (because, you know, Peadophilia is just nasty and why on earth, even for fanfiction, would I want to subject myself to writing it?) I refuse to read it either 🤢
2.) Scat (I'm not kink shaming here) but, ew. Ecoli and infections and general grossness aside, not my cup of tea. 🤮
4.) A Ryuk/Light or Ryuk/L fic. I've tried this. I wrote 'Mine' and it had a Ryuk/L scene in it and it was an extremely difficult write I certainly wouldn't attempt again.
3.) TopL. It doesn't do it for me and I'm certain a solid 90% of the Lawlight fandom write BottomLight so I'm just going to stay where I am and do my thing 😄 (however I would totally write, and have written, a switching fic)
5.) Incest fics- Self explanatory. Incest is gross I'm not writing about that shit. 😬
So yeah...I stay clear of the above for my own sanity and self preservation. Anything else is fair game though 😊
