Everyone deep diving into the Ford hate again needs to step back and think of a few things.
Stan wouldn't have fought to get his brother back from the portal if he didn't love him, even when they were both at their absolute worst. The core of their schism was a terrible mistake that exploded into something even worse from their father being an asshole. Caryn and Filbrick had no faith in Stan being a success, and put a shitty amount of pressure onto Ford. They were literally high school kids.
You're trying to tell me that we should blame Ford for not recognizing abuse from Bill, when he suffered at the hand of his father with it? Hell, you can even see Caryn wasn't wanting to stand up against her own husband....If you're in an environment like that regularly, then it's not abnormal and obvious.
Ford of course saw Bill as a muse in the beginning. He challenged him, and complimented him, for a time as a partner of the mind and science. There was unspoken trust....For a time.
When consent began to disappear, and Ford was in too deep, then he recognized abuse, and his Muse was a Monster. He probably saw Bill as someone to "impress"...Much like his father in the beginning. But when mental and physical violation happened, and Ford was not in control, it's SA. In any relationship of any kind, you should be able to say no without fear of repercussions.
Ford isn't a villain because he didn't recognize abuse immediately, and Bill made it one sided love where he just wanted Ford to be a cooperative vessel and pet in the end. I truly think Bill wouldn't care about Ford once he drained him mentally. The monster destroyed his own home and family...Why would a human being be anything special to him? Humanity is merely a grain of sand in Bill's timeline. Ford would be a blip eventually.
Ford had every right to be mad returning home. Thirty years, nearly 13 of those in which he missed with a great niece and nephew he immediately adores, and a brother that is upset he doesn't get an apology. There is a time and place for that.
But, you can't expect a perfectly fleshed out character with Ford when he was only included in maybe 10 episodes total. Read the books again. Research and go through media of all kinds with SA, and compare them. I hope that most don't have to relate to SA, but can grasp that a victim is never "asking" for it, like everyone that hates Ford seems to think. His form of consent with Bill was shaking hands in the end. Many times, Bill clearly disregarded that, and acted like Ford deep down wanted it.
In the end, Ford would have gladly destroyed Bill if he knew he could on his own without giving him the equation, but coming back around to it, Stan probably recognized abuse in Ford with Bill, and didn't want Ford to suffer anymore, and to be able to get 30 years more to be among those that actually loved him.
I could keep going, but damn it, I'm tired. There are no truly good characters here, but there are certainly morally grey ones for reasons, and absolutely awful ones(Bill). Learn the differences. Stan wouldn't stand for this, and neither should we.















