Nace, and the Power of Fear and Love
Hello, shes, hes and thems of Tumblr. Welcome to tonight's insane rambling theories, tonight we will be discussing Nace and the themes of love and fear.
(Thanks to the fun influence of minimally medicated ADHD, my brain is perpetually unorganized and scattered, so apologies if this is all over the place.)
So, I was watching clips from 3x13, as one is wont to do, and the concept of fear comes up a LOT here. Actually, not just here, but it's a central theme.
Ace tells Nancy there is nothing to be afraid of. Nancy says the same right before they almost kiss.
And then Ace says this in his monologue:
Centrally, what is keeping them apart is fear. Ace's fear that Nancy sees him as lacking, Nancy's fear that she'll hurt him.
And that makes you wonder if that has any curse applicability. Nancy held herself back for a solid month out of fear, and still did when she told Ace. He himself calls her out on pushing him away out of fear.
I've theorized before that maybe they already did break the curse, or the curse isn't what we think it is. If you're Temperance, you're in this to torture them. You're in this to be psychologically three steps ahead of them.
Nancy fears for Ace's life more than most people. But Ace doesn't fear for his own life near as much. So if he could convince her to try to break the curse, fear of losing his own life wouldn't stop them, and the curse ends there.
So Ace doesn't fear for his own life, but he fears for Nancy's. The torture on both of them is greatly prolonged if he is the one to say no. If they play on his fear. And it is especially profoundly terrible if there is nothing supernatural holding them back. Just the fear of each other's deaths. If they lose each other not because of anything supernatural, but because of fear. And by weaponizing that fear, Temperance did damage. She took away the fundamentals of their relationship. They can't be there for each other like they want to, they're not understanding each other, they can't be around each other, they can't talk. That's some grade A psychological torture.
But that's where the concept of love comes into this. Temperance is a soulless monster who by the show's own admission, never felt love. Not for her daughter, not for anyone. But one of ND's central themes is the power of love.
George: "You suddenly realize that love is the most human thing that humans can ever human."
Temperance isn't a human. Temperance exists to manipulate for her own gain. Much like the Aglaeca, the thing she hadn't been able to predict was the effect of love, and that is how I think they'll defeat her. I have long thought they may have to activate the curse to destroy it. ND loves its time crunches. It's also why I think Nace have never said "I love you" flat out to each other. That feels intentional.
Also, Temperance said that had blind spots, and we can take from that she meant Ace, and Ryan, and her love for others. Oddly, this could be Temperance's blind spot too, albiet in a different way.
So what does that mean? Well, I....don't really know. I just think this factors into some curse breakin'.