Being a 5'5" (165cm) afab person and being told "you're cute when you're angry"
*screams forever into the void*
This is infantilization of short people and sexism. As the current social association of femininity and negative emotions commonly reduces them to cuteness, in a way stripping them from their meaning and demeanishing that persons emotions and autonomy.
Also anon, by the context you used you're using AFAB wrong. What you're looking for is SETE (someone expected to estrogenize) or someone socialised as a woman. As AGAB comes from intersex terminology of the letter you get in your documentation when born, not actually how you're raised as, it was just taken out of meaning in the trans community and it's harmful, as there's a AFAB intersex people who were not socialised as women but then became trans women, and then in the trans community they end up being ostracized for having "contradicting identities". This post [link] goes in depth on this.














