Re: Temp Hiatus & Apology
@spirithighway Thank you for the apology. It’s a step in the right direction (though I highly suggest you seek help of an actual physician instead of a reiki practitioner, if the damage to your mental/physical health is that great.)
Let’s even set aside for a moment, the blatant ploys for sympathy or pity, and the blame shifting onto your spirits - the very same spirits that you sell and claimed to people are completely safe, mind you - in your shop. This is still not enough. I’m also calling @germanforhell (Jess) to task here - you’re equally to blame and I find your silence on this both telling and disgusting. You’ve missed some points.
What about the times that I asked for your help or encouragement in the chat, only to have it talked over by your own fantastical astral experiences?
What about the fact that despite the apology I’m still banned from your forum, your “safe space”, your “welcoming” forum community, the one that I first suggested be created?
Above all else, what about all the manipulative shit you pulled? About the time you tried to turn me against some of my friends? What about the fact that you tried to convince me that one of them is an abuser? Or maybe the time that you tried to convince me that another shop’s vessel’s are empty and the binds were toxic and should be undone?
And this is just my stating my own experiences. I got off easy. What about MJ, who was consistently used and jerked around by your emotional manipulation, despite her repeated assertions that she was not in a mental state to be dealing with the shit you put her to? What about Hayley, who finally mouthed off to you on one post in a request for credit where credit is due, and was immediately framed as a betrayer after a 4 year long friendship? What about Cherrie, who got driven off of Tumblr and had fucking anxiety attacks over the fact that you claimed she abused the spirit she got from you, then had you lie straight to her face when you claimed you didn’t know where the allegations of abuse came from??
And what of all the people, who have said that they fear posting in the tag now because of your dismissal of any other UPG? The people who fear creating shops because of aggression and sniping towards any of them that aren’t bowing to you? What about the newbies who look up to you, and are groomed by you into thinking all of this shit is okay? It’s not just one or two people in addition to the ones above who’ve come to me about this -- it’s far too common, but the fear of repercussions, of more lies and backlash, leads them to stay silent. I hope they see this post and feel they can come forward now.
Can you apologize for that, @eternusamici? More than that, can you take responsibility for it - without shifting blame or making sad excuses - for once?
