a lot of people have the mindset “man dan met his first boyfriend and soulmate at 18 and im still alone) being alone isnt bad!!!! remember to love yourself!!!!!! go on as many weird adventures as you can collect your own northern anecdotes :) in my time alone ive been hit by a car and lost in the woods and became a full time artist soon to be college dropout! and im about to turn 21! which is older than dan was when he met phil, and sure, one and only true soulmates are true for some, but not everyones story is a hero’s journey! you dont have to have all these preconcieved notions on what will make you happiest, YOU CAN LOVE EVERYTHING!!!! LOVE IS FREE!!! i love you!!!!