I've given up on my family. My dad drinks all the time, shouts at my brother and occasionally me and a few months back, told me that I was worth nothing and that I would never be known in history, people would only know me through my brother who he promised would be far more successful than me. Though he was drunk when saying this, it doesn't excuse it. My mother can't be accounted for. One moment she's nice and lovely. Another she's spiteful. I've tried to hold on, but should I let go of them?
Family relationships can be toxic. I know it’s a cliche, but you really can’t choose family. I’m sorry you’re stuck with such a shitty one. I would say give yourself much needed space from them. People can change, but I would definitely say wait it out with them. If in a year or more’s time they haven’t changed at all then I for one would not blame you at all for walking out on them. They sound like they’ve given you every reason to. If you’re old enough, look into getting a place with a friend or an extended family member. You don’t need to be in such a sick home. Things will turn around sweetie, you can get through this. <3
-Gabriel
