#stalker talk

[fitzeight]

I need my stalker to die right now right now right now

[czrbstalkerkitty]

He looks so pretty when he tells me how much he adores me, how much he cares about me. It’s cute how he says he loves me more, but the things i do for him. The things i would do for him. it just proves i do more. Gosh he’s just so majestic.

[fitzeight]

My stalker should explain the shit they do in therapy and see how well that goes.

[fitzeight]

Hit that point in my dash where I took like a week long hiatus because my stalker was sending me anons again.

VERY happy that blocking them and turning off anon fixed that problem <3 Still paranoid because they're spreading shit on discord now but if I concentrate really hard maybe I can kill them with my mind.

[fitzeight]

Why I save all my old urls is because A. I might go back to them someday and B. I'm weirdly afraid that my stalker/ex friends are gonna steal them and use them against me somehow.

[wazurenaide]

I was catching up on your asks (you get some really interesting discussions on here!) and I saw one where you said you'd had a stalker. I'm so sorry - that's genuinely terrifying. Idk if you want to do this (and feel free not to/not publish this ask) but if there's anything you think people should know about stalking, I'd love to hear it.

Again, no pressure. I think people sometimes underestimate how awful it really is and so if you wanted to talk about it or educate about it, feel free to use this ask as an opportunity (I hope that came out right!)

Thank you for catching up! Oh yeah, I have absolutely no problem in talking about it! I don't know if it needs TW but in case:

TW: i'll be talking about stalker, if you don't feel comfortable don't read

I have 2 big advices about this:

1 - never go or never go alone to meet your stalker, you could say that it is a no brainer but the majority of stalkers are ex boyfriends or girlfriend. People that you trusted at some point, that now do not accept "no" as an answer and relentlessly try to "get you back". Please don't fall for that!

The way i felt it was powerless and it creeped up on me. You know the whole speech right? He was a nice guy, he seems to be harmless and we were together for a long time, so he was my boyfriend and then things started to go south. We didn't see eye to eye on many things and i though "well i want to break up" and he seems cool with it until he wasn't

And at first it were messages, and at the beginning i though "oh he is afraid of losing me", the whole "getting you back when you said no" type of gesture (i was made to believe that i was the stuck up bitch for saying no) cause it got so romanticized and so glamorized by movies, songs and even tv shows... that i genuinely though "oh he really loves me and he wants me back" and tried to look for the good in him until i couldn't see nothing good anymore and then it was calling my parents, and then letters and flowers and once i've asked him "please stop we are over" and he wasn't listening i realized "oh he won't stop" and he kept on insisting to meet up but i wasn't going to. I never went out alone anywhere, small town and he knew my spots, but there were times in which i was scared at every turn cause he knew where i lived, and i had a pepper spray on me at all times.

People think that stalking is just "following you around", that it is "small little thing", that you don't have to worry cause he "hasn't been violent to you yet" but what gets under your skin is being relentless and it is suffocating and i had to change phone number first and then i moved completely. I had to leave my home town cause police wouldn't help (cause he didn't do anything "physical" to me) and i was scared, all the damn time. And this isn't a way of living. So i blocked him on everything, even on linkedin! I had to block his number from my parents phones, my uncle and aunt (and he still tried to have a connection through them) even my friends blocked him

2 - trust your guts!!! Each one of us, when we are in danger or even when we feel uncertain, there is this pull that we feel and that feeling could be your saving grace. I trusted it and it showed me his real colors but many don't do it and it can get dangerous pretty quick and there is no turning back!

Therapy, support system and sharing my location where all things that i did and still do to this day. If you can call a local number for strength and support please do that as well but please please please if he/she doesn't listen to your small "no", if they don't respect those boundaries please leave.

Better alone and alive than with someone and scared all the time

[yandereloveraw]

Please consider: You knowing that Xavier is stalking you, and being a tease about it. I guarantee he'll get super flustered.