jesus christ theres a difference between pointing out problems with shipping abusive pairings and sending a sexual assault survivor graphic hate and wishing that theyd get fucking raped?? what is wrong with you people
I literally never did that?? I think you have the wrong person. That, or youāre just making shit up about me--itās happened before.
Obviously, yes, the second one is worse. Itās also not something I have ever done, and absolutely NOT something I condone, PERIOD.Ā Iām a sexual assault survivor myself, and even if I werenāt, Iād find that disgusting.
Also, itās worth noting that a lot ofĀ āantiā blogs are incredibly awfulĀ to people who do shipĀ āāābadāāā pairings. Iāve seen outright suicide baiting, for fuckās sake.Ā
Thereās a HUGE FUCKING DIFFERENCE between liking something in a purely fictional context and condoning it in real life. And so long as people arenāt shoving their ships in other peopleās faces, why the fuck should it matter?
Plus, some people actually findĀ āharmlessā pairings triggering for various reasons--I have a friend who canāt stand my favorite ship (which is pretty tame) because her asshole ex shipped it, for instance. And I know plenty of survivors who arenātĀ bothered byĀ ābadā ships--and some of the same peopleĀ areĀ bothered byĀ āgoodā ships.Ā
Finally, you doĀ realize that youāre using the same arguments used by the likes of Jack Thompson, right? That liking something in fiction means you mustĀ think itās a good thing in reality? Whether itās a ship or a violent video game or whatever, thatās fucking bullshit.
Whoever is sending out hate is absolutelyĀ in the wrong. But it aināt me. And itās definitely not anyone Iād ever associate with. So maybe you should just leave all of us be.