#stuffandthingsandsuch

[meyerlansky]

stuffandthingsandsuch replied to your post “like does it even matter if i keep venting about how much i see...”

I'm with you my friend. I've just had to be ruthless with my blocking and unfollowing.

I'm sorry things are hitting you so hard today. I know it feels like you should just be over it but these people literally hate aro/ace existence and that's not something to take lightly.

it’s honestly not even like... the outright hate doesn’t bother me. it’s frustrating and i worry about aspec people who are less comfortable with themselves internalizing it, but i can usually roll my eyes, block the op, and move on. the shit that bothers me WAY MORE is the subtle, dog-whistle-y shit. and i don’t want to break multi-year mutuals over posts like that because... i have to think the people i follow don’t realize? and some of them reblog other stuff that’s explicitly inclusive of aspec people, which is a huge reassurance! but not all of them. and it still makes me :/ to see those posts at all.

and all i have is venting. which is annoying. so. i dunno.

[g0atbutts]

1 & 8 for the trans ask game!

1.) well basically its just.... a different spelling of my deadname, just slightly more femmenine. its a p gender neutral name.8.) just, basically, “hey im girl”

[g0atbutts]

10. dog gay or cat gay?

tbh thats a really hard question, i love them both a lot but i own 4 cats and no dogs so i guess cat???

[pansexual-confessions-archive]

Submitted by  stuffandthingsandsuch

[alouettesque]

*chanting* GEMINI GEMINI GEMINI

i love how many geminis i follow

i rarely see gemini hate memes on my dash because of this beautiful fact

[billythebrime]

stuffandthingsandsuch said: Screw your crappy friends. Go to your own Halloween party and don’t invite them with you. Even if parties aren’t your thing, dress up and answer the door for trick or treaters!

The older I get, the less I care for Halloween and I think the lack of plans is a big factor, as well as the whole 'being too old to trick or treat'. We get about 8 kids on average every year. :/

[onceuponcarlshaven]

2. Castiel or Sam?

I would rather have Castiel take care of me if I was sick. I love Sam but I feel like this is the perfect job for Cas. He’s such a sweetheart and would probably get me all the things I need and more ^.^ Send me 2 names and a number and I’ll tell you which I’d rather… (I posted it a while ago so just go into my “send me” tag)

[grovnder]

Scratching

turn off/ not my thing/ haven’t thought of it before/ cool/ hot damn/ TURN ON/ TAKE ME NOW