#sugar allowance

[techsugar]

M&G dinner with POT last night lasted five HOURS, and it was a delight 🥴 I’m definitely doing this wrong... LMAO. People on Sugar Lifestyle Forum say they meet for 15 mins max. Oops.

This guy, I assumed he was a lawyer cos his profile said he completed an elite law program, but he said he never practiced law. He’s a wildly prolific serial entrepreneur.

He told me when he was my age, he borrowed a loan for ~$40mil and bought a ton of fast food chains. Since then, he’s bought mortgage companies, etc. and sold them all. Now he only operates “sweets” shops.

So he sounds like a perfect SD who wouldn’t be salty, right? Get it... Sweets...

Tell me why I’m dropping hints that I don’t have a car and my new job is an hour away from home. This mfer really offers to DRIVE ME HOME EVERY DAY. YOU’RE INSANE SIR.

He also kept talking about “when we fall in love...” etc.

He’s soooooo nice. I can’t decide which route to take: Should I ask for allowance, a car (or downpayment), or possibly keep him as a gift SD (cos before the dinner he kept asking me my sizes and favorite flowers, colors, etc) then maybe once the relationship matures I ask for a ~$40mil loan. Just kidding. Gift SD wouldn’t help me pay for Ubers to work.

Any SBs have advice?

[softgirlygirl]

I’ve blocked 4 scammers in the last 2 hours. Everyone jumps right into the money... can someone just talk to me first? Get to know me? See if we can hold a conversation and go from there? This is so frustrating ☹️ I want a companion god dammit!

[sugarabg]

Sugar baby must read.

Negotiating is key!

[techsugar]

I always have to take a 2-month hiatus anytime I’m looking for a SD because it’s soooo exhausting… Anyone else? LOL.

[ehjustkindathere]

Need a sugar daddy or mommy 🤑 Dm me

[softgirlygirl]

Please do not come to me as a sugar daddy without reading my rules! I’ve been scammed and hurt by people I got close to 😖 I’m lonely and in desperate need of someone I can talk to on a semi-frequent basis. I’m paying my way through school and NEED help. Come to me if you’re looking for a COMPANION to spoil and emotionally take care of.

[venicechick]

Somehow made these 3 SA men I never met Venmo me $$$ for a total of $900. Not bad considering I’ve never met these men and didn’t have to talk to them too long 😃 I asked them to help me buy a $200 perfume. I plan to meet them but I’m sick of waiting for them to get back from their travels and decided to actually ask for stuff prior to meeting. Two are older, but the third one is 22 years old🤣 He’d messaged me a few times on SA, and I’d always block him because duh 😄 This time he tricked me by saying he’s 39. I was still skeptical. Anyhow I told him if he’s serious he needs to Venmo me and he sent me $500 😅😅 I surely did not expect him to actually Venmo me. Looks like he’s from a wealthy CT family and wants a “blonde Russian model girlfriend with big boobs” 🤣 Very specific. It turns him on that I’m older lol But if I can get $$$ out of him, then why not . He, of course, wants to sext now. I’m teaching him some manners. He’s actually a cute young Jewish boy. I might actually have fun with him

[techsugar]

Sometimes I wonder if the “time” investment for sugaring has a good ROI ... LMFAOOO. As in, if I spend x hours searching for a SD, which is not guaranteed, I make x amount. Whereas, I take another job, etc. and guaranteed to make y amount.

I’m all about efficiency, meeting my goals and being realistic. I wonder if this is an avenue that will meet my goals?

It’s emotionally fatiguing, frustrating and demoralizing. I recently bought a used car and can’t help but liken the men on Seeking to used car salesmen.