#sugarsa

[techsugar]

I always have to take a 2-month hiatus anytime I’m looking for a SD because it’s soooo exhausting… Anyone else? LOL.

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black and white.

yoonmin<3

10.09.21

[leeeeeeeen]

Face reveal 🎀💖 @flowerpriincess_ on Insta let’s b friends :)

[techsugar]

I’m literally soooo annoying cos I’m fr crushing on this POT I had ONE (2.5 hour!) date with tonight. Literally tbh I would date him vanilla, but I want that cash. Gonna text him my needs tomorrow cos he texted asking me after the date.

I feel like I should feel even more empowered to ask for what I want since we got along so well. He also LOVED my gift and was like shooook I gave him a tiny gift. But I do not feel that empowered lmao.

Gonna try to read more chapters of Ho Tactics tn as I’m falling asleep lmao.

[techsugar]

Also I have my first POT date this upcoming Tuesday (and first date this *entire year* actually). His profile says 39 and used his actual number (lmao) so I already verified everything about him. He’s def not a whale. We will see how it goes!

I’m into educated guys, and he went to an Ivy League (hot). I also took a break from the site for like a month when I was finishing my final projects for class and he messaged me some cute things like “It’s really hard to find an intelligent, artsy kind of girl like you on this site [seeking].” lmfaoooooo

We haven’t discussed allowance or anything at all *nervous laughter*

[techsugar]

I’m kind of like mind battling my strategy about allowance cos I feel like this man will ask me in person on my date tomorrow ...

Like on one hand, the PPM (not allowance, though I’d prefer allowance) for my area per the Reddit allowance thread (my only point of reference lmfao... linked at bottom) ranges from 200-1k and some girls even commented higher. That’s usually at least four visits a month so $800-$4k a month allowance. That’s such a wide range.

Him: What are you expecting for allowance?

Me: $800-$4k :p

Just kidding LMFAOOOO. I definitely want to try the higher end of the spectrum cos his Seeking profile said he makes $300k annually which is roughly $25k a month, and you know there’s investments etc padding his wallet.

The first time I did an arrangement, I didn’t realize that he was a total splenda (and a fucking creep) and just accepted his amount, which wasn’t horrible, but he gave me $100 less when we had to do hotels, inside only, no gifts, was a TOTAL pervert, etc. Not what I’m looking for.

I want to negotiate. I’m worth more. Let’s see if I can channel my empowered self haha. I’m also a huge blusher and know I’m gonna be bright red if we discuss in person. Maybe I’ll look innocent and irresistibly charming.

r/sugarlifestyleforum - Allowance Master Thread 2021-2022

101 votes and 197 comments so far on Reddit

[techsugar]

On cloud 9 after my second date with POT tonight. We discussed politics and economic theory for hours over dinner... He’s totally hooked. And so am I 🥴 I think I read the sugar dating instructions incorrectly cos I think this man may be my soulmate ahhahahahahha

Spoiled girlfriend incoming! 😇

[techsugar]

I literally hate the allowance talk omfg ... I have a date planned for tomorrow and he just confirmed the time and place. I think it will be the most expensive restaurant a guy has taken me to thus far. I’m a bit nervous!

We also have not discussed allowance at all. I don’t know if I should bring it up before we go? Or it seems like he’s intentionally avoiding it (but I don’t get a splenda/salt vibe yet). Like he seems really gentlemanly. Yet at the same time I do not want to discuss in person.

We’ll see...