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Chronicles of a sugar baby studying tech + libra + introvert

[techsugar]

Starting at-home pilates this week and maybe have one date with a cute POT! Generally approaching this with more caution/mind on money and want to discuss it before first date, but I really don’t know how LMFAO.

I think I’m too nice and keep wasting time with broke men on a first date cos I’m too shy to bring up $$$. And they clearly take advantage! Like you’re 100% benefitting from this date. What happened to courting women? smh.

I need this lesson though cos I’m also too shy to discuss money at work, and that’s detrimental to my career.

[techsugar]

Literally did not do any of this 😂 Went to France for a month with my friend instead…

Can’t wait to freestyle when I return home for the holidays. And finally discuss $$$ before the first date LOL. I guess it’s like I’m so picky to begin with that scaring them off by asking about allowance is unideal, but the fact of the matter is we wouldn’t be chatting or dating at all without allowance involved!

[techsugar]

Starting at-home pilates this week and maybe have one date with a cute POT! Generally approaching this with more caution/mind on money and want to discuss it before first date, but I really don’t know how LMFAO.

I think I’m too nice and keep wasting time with broke men on a first date cos I’m too shy to bring up $$$. And they clearly take advantage! Like you’re 100% benefitting from this date. What happened to courting women? smh.

I need this lesson though cos I’m also too shy to discuss money at work, and that’s detrimental to my career.

[softestaura]

Anok Yai arriving at the BoF 500 gala wearing Del Core FW22 dress

[pradadada6]

Me going out fine as fuck 🤝 not taking any pictures

[karlvsn-deactivated20240312-dea]

[kill4]

[irtenyev]

when w. h. auden said “evil is unspectacular and always human” and ursula k. leguin said “this is the great treason of the artist: a refusal to admit the banality of evil and the terrible boredom of pain”

[weltenwellen]

Anaïs Nin, The Diary of Anaïs Nin, Vol. 1: 1931-1934

[duskissed]

[mrsclarkkent]

“All I want is books. Books and rain. Rain and books. That’s all.”

— Juansen Dizon

[kindlles]

[idleminds]

[sidereusimber]

Psyche Weeping, Kinuko Y. Craft I Ophelia, Friedrich Wilhelm Theodor Heyser

[bellafleurz]

[techsugar]

Went on a seemingly normal M&G dinner date this weekend, my first this year. I took a bit of a hiatus.

I learned he previously worked for the government, and he told me all sorts of fascinating info about his tenure there.

The next day, he also asked when will I tell him my real name and phone number (never told him I used a fake name) and also said the small town I live in.

I’m thinking I may throw in the towel, ladies. I cannot find a single man that is anywhere near normal/not a threat in some way.

I’m so annoyed bc I seriously was thinking “Okay, he’s funny and interesting. I can date this mid-50s guy,” then he has to go and be a creep? What sane person does that? Anyone else? :/

[the-night-picture-collector]

Babette Mangolte, Annette Michelson’s Bookshelves on the Upper West Side, 1976

[crumbargento]

The Portrait of Dorian Gay - J.J. English - 1974 - USA