Dec 8, 2023
a lot of people who practice polyamory will find that it doesn’t work for them and will then shit on it
but it’s not POLYAMORY that’s the problem.
polyamory only works if you trust your partner to love you. you have to be able to trust them to keep loving you even if they get other partners.
if you cannot trust your partner to do that then polyamory will never work for you because you will be haunted by jealousy and the fear of your partner replacing you
which isn’t a personal attack on people who can’t do polyamory. you don’t HAVE to be able to do polyamory. there is nothing wrong with monogamy.
but polyamory itself isn’t the issue. polyamory itself can be done ethically and in a way that hurts nobody
