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he/him

[cipher-of-the-round-table]

Right, considering the current state of corporate politics on this site, and that it seems that only those affected seem to be actively speaking on the matter, it is up to I, the only fucking cishet on tumblr, to drag this out to a wider audience.

REBLOG IF YOUR ACCOUNT IS A TRANSFEM SAFE SPACE.

We need to show these higher ups how much we truly value them.

[cyberpriestess]

including the weird weird trannies

is your blog a safe space for freaks, deviants, cringe failgirls, transfems you find personally annoying, transfems who are Loud and Opinionated, is it safe for all of us ?

[harpooneclectic]

‘narc abuse is REAL and a WHOLE DIFFERENT TYPE OF ABUSE’ explain to me what makes narc abuse different. you cant. because narc abuse ISNT REAL

also half of you guys aren’t even being abused by narcissists lmao. they’re just ordinary abusers who think they’re better than others. and you do not know enough to accurately diagnose them as a narcissist

let’s be real bro. the only reason people use the term ‘narc abuse’ is because it makes them feel special and like their abuse was somehow worse than everyone else’s even though it wasn’t

[hopelesslyyearning-deactivated2]

What makes NPD real? being a dumb ass bitch. Because npd ain't real bitch

[harpooneclectic]

[hopelesslyyearning-deactivated2]

Thanks for demonstrating the "disregard for other people and their feelings" part of npd lmaooo

[harpooneclectic]

how are you gonna say npd isn’t real and then talk about npd symptoms. brother what is your goal here

[hopelesslyyearning-deactivated2]

How are you gonna say narc abuse isn't real and then talk about npd. Bitch what is your goal here

[harpooneclectic]

how are you a real person bro npd is real and narc abuse is not because ‘narc abuse’ is just always just referring to emotional abuse. you have a brain. please use it

[hopelesslyyearning-deactivated2]

Lmao minimising traumatic experiences that aren't yours is such a narcissistic thing to do. You may be an actual narcissist and not just a person w npd after all. Thanks for demonising a fucked up illness more than it already is.

"i haven't experienced your abuse but i sure know that it's just emotional abuse" will get you a "then npd isn't real bc everyone has self esteem issues". There's proof of both npd and narc abuse being real AND of npd≠narcissism but you ignore the latter two bc it hurts you pitiful, fragile ego. Oof.

[harpooneclectic]

explain to me what makes ‘narc abuse’ different to emotional abuse then. YOU are the one going around preaching about narcissists being inherently abusive. shut the fuck up and stop being an ableist cunt

[hopelesslyyearning-deactivated2]

Do your own damn research, use the time you spend talking over abuse victims. The audacity to even ask someone to explain their abuse.

And use that self obsessed head to learn the thin line of difference between npd and being a "narcissist". Npd can make people abusive but it's not an abuser disorder, like many other stigmatised illnesses.

And you don't even need to learn the pattern of narcisstic abuse to not talk over other people's abuse. That's literally basic human decency and you don't have even that. Have some shame.

[harpooneclectic]

you’re talking over my fucking experience of being treated like shit because people like YOU demonise narcissism to the point that everyone thinks everyone with npd is an abuser. medical professionals literally refuse to treat people with npd because of the shit you evil cunts say about us.

i HAVE done research. ‘narc abuse’ isn’t an actual separate form of abuse. read a book and stop demonising innocent traumatised people. grow some basic fucking compassion and stop being a stuck-up shithead

[hopelesslyyearning-deactivated2]

Narcissistic idiot. Go off bitch.

[harpooneclectic]

you’re a fucking moron get off my page and stop being a useless idiotic cunt lmao

[harpooneclectic]

‘narc abuse is REAL and a WHOLE DIFFERENT TYPE OF ABUSE’ explain to me what makes narc abuse different. you cant. because narc abuse ISNT REAL

also half of you guys aren’t even being abused by narcissists lmao. they’re just ordinary abusers who think they’re better than others. and you do not know enough to accurately diagnose them as a narcissist

let’s be real bro. the only reason people use the term ‘narc abuse’ is because it makes them feel special and like their abuse was somehow worse than everyone else’s even though it wasn’t

[hopelesslyyearning-deactivated2]

What makes NPD real? being a dumb ass bitch. Because npd ain't real bitch

[harpooneclectic]

[hopelesslyyearning-deactivated2]

Thanks for demonstrating the "disregard for other people and their feelings" part of npd lmaooo

[harpooneclectic]

how are you gonna say npd isn’t real and then talk about npd symptoms. brother what is your goal here

[hopelesslyyearning-deactivated2]

How are you gonna say narc abuse isn't real and then talk about npd. Bitch what is your goal here

[harpooneclectic]

how are you a real person bro npd is real and narc abuse is not because ‘narc abuse’ is just always just referring to emotional abuse. you have a brain. please use it

[hopelesslyyearning-deactivated2]

Lmao minimising traumatic experiences that aren't yours is such a narcissistic thing to do. You may be an actual narcissist and not just a person w npd after all. Thanks for demonising a fucked up illness more than it already is.

"i haven't experienced your abuse but i sure know that it's just emotional abuse" will get you a "then npd isn't real bc everyone has self esteem issues". There's proof of both npd and narc abuse being real AND of npd≠narcissism but you ignore the latter two bc it hurts you pitiful, fragile ego. Oof.

[harpooneclectic]

explain to me what makes ‘narc abuse’ different to emotional abuse then. YOU are the one going around preaching about narcissists being inherently abusive. shut the fuck up and stop being an ableist cunt

[hopelesslyyearning-deactivated2]

Do your own damn research, use the time you spend talking over abuse victims. The audacity to even ask someone to explain their abuse.

And use that self obsessed head to learn the thin line of difference between npd and being a "narcissist". Npd can make people abusive but it's not an abuser disorder, like many other stigmatised illnesses.

And you don't even need to learn the pattern of narcisstic abuse to not talk over other people's abuse. That's literally basic human decency and you don't have even that. Have some shame.

[harpooneclectic]

you’re talking over my fucking experience of being treated like shit because people like YOU demonise narcissism to the point that everyone thinks everyone with npd is an abuser. medical professionals literally refuse to treat people with npd because of the shit you evil cunts say about us.

i HAVE done research. ‘narc abuse’ isn’t an actual separate form of abuse. read a book and stop demonising innocent traumatised people. grow some basic fucking compassion and stop being a stuck-up shithead

[harpooneclectic]

‘narc abuse is REAL and a WHOLE DIFFERENT TYPE OF ABUSE’ explain to me what makes narc abuse different. you cant. because narc abuse ISNT REAL

also half of you guys aren’t even being abused by narcissists lmao. they’re just ordinary abusers who think they’re better than others. and you do not know enough to accurately diagnose them as a narcissist

let’s be real bro. the only reason people use the term ‘narc abuse’ is because it makes them feel special and like their abuse was somehow worse than everyone else’s even though it wasn’t

[hopelesslyyearning-deactivated2]

What makes NPD real? being a dumb ass bitch. Because npd ain't real bitch

[harpooneclectic]

[hopelesslyyearning-deactivated2]

Thanks for demonstrating the "disregard for other people and their feelings" part of npd lmaooo

[harpooneclectic]

how are you gonna say npd isn’t real and then talk about npd symptoms. brother what is your goal here

[hopelesslyyearning-deactivated2]

How are you gonna say narc abuse isn't real and then talk about npd. Bitch what is your goal here

[harpooneclectic]

how are you a real person bro npd is real and narc abuse is not because ‘narc abuse’ is just always just referring to emotional abuse. you have a brain. please use it

[hopelesslyyearning-deactivated2]

Lmao minimising traumatic experiences that aren't yours is such a narcissistic thing to do. You may be an actual narcissist and not just a person w npd after all. Thanks for demonising a fucked up illness more than it already is.

"i haven't experienced your abuse but i sure know that it's just emotional abuse" will get you a "then npd isn't real bc everyone has self esteem issues". There's proof of both npd and narc abuse being real AND of npd≠narcissism but you ignore the latter two bc it hurts you pitiful, fragile ego. Oof.

[harpooneclectic]

explain to me what makes ‘narc abuse’ different to emotional abuse then. YOU are the one going around preaching about narcissists being inherently abusive. shut the fuck up and stop being an ableist cunt

[harpooneclectic]

coming onto a narc’s page to be a little cunt is actually insane. if you want me to be an evil narc so bad then maybe i will and i’ll start being a cunt to you the way you’re being a cunt to me. very sick of being treated like shit for having this personality disorder that i cannot control

[hopelesslyyearning-deactivated2]

People really don't know humour and sarcasm lmao I'm tired

[harpooneclectic]

says the bitch who came at me for replying to your dumb ass reblog with a meme LMAO

[harpooneclectic]

‘narc abuse is REAL and a WHOLE DIFFERENT TYPE OF ABUSE’ explain to me what makes narc abuse different. you cant. because narc abuse ISNT REAL

also half of you guys aren’t even being abused by narcissists lmao. they’re just ordinary abusers who think they’re better than others. and you do not know enough to accurately diagnose them as a narcissist

let’s be real bro. the only reason people use the term ‘narc abuse’ is because it makes them feel special and like their abuse was somehow worse than everyone else’s even though it wasn’t

[hopelesslyyearning-deactivated2]

What makes NPD real? being a dumb ass bitch. Because npd ain't real bitch

[harpooneclectic]

[hopelesslyyearning-deactivated2]

Thanks for demonstrating the "disregard for other people and their feelings" part of npd lmaooo

[harpooneclectic]

how are you gonna say npd isn’t real and then talk about npd symptoms. brother what is your goal here

[hopelesslyyearning-deactivated2]

How are you gonna say narc abuse isn't real and then talk about npd. Bitch what is your goal here

[harpooneclectic]

how are you a real person bro npd is real and narc abuse is not because ‘narc abuse’ is just always just referring to emotional abuse. you have a brain. please use it

[harpooneclectic]

‘narc abuse is REAL and a WHOLE DIFFERENT TYPE OF ABUSE’ explain to me what makes narc abuse different. you cant. because narc abuse ISNT REAL

also half of you guys aren’t even being abused by narcissists lmao. they’re just ordinary abusers who think they’re better than others. and you do not know enough to accurately diagnose them as a narcissist

let’s be real bro. the only reason people use the term ‘narc abuse’ is because it makes them feel special and like their abuse was somehow worse than everyone else’s even though it wasn’t

[hopelesslyyearning-deactivated2]

What makes NPD real? being a dumb ass bitch. Because npd ain't real bitch

[harpooneclectic]

[hopelesslyyearning-deactivated2]

Thanks for demonstrating the "disregard for other people and their feelings" part of npd lmaooo

[harpooneclectic]

how are you gonna say npd isn’t real and then talk about npd symptoms. brother what is your goal here

[harpooneclectic]

‘narc abuse is REAL and a WHOLE DIFFERENT TYPE OF ABUSE’ explain to me what makes narc abuse different. you cant. because narc abuse ISNT REAL

also half of you guys aren’t even being abused by narcissists lmao. they’re just ordinary abusers who think they’re better than others. and you do not know enough to accurately diagnose them as a narcissist

let’s be real bro. the only reason people use the term ‘narc abuse’ is because it makes them feel special and like their abuse was somehow worse than everyone else’s even though it wasn’t

[hopelesslyyearning-deactivated2]

What makes NPD real? being a dumb ass bitch. Because npd ain't real bitch

[harpooneclectic]

[porcelain-rob0t]

having a uterus SUCKS man bc all day you'll be feeling the "hey bestie check your pants 😃 check it right now 😃 you might be getting your period 😃 hey bestie i think youre bleeding 😃" and then when you check if you got your period and your body is like WRONG ❌️ its The Slime

[harpooneclectic]

‘narc abuse is REAL and a WHOLE DIFFERENT TYPE OF ABUSE’ explain to me what makes narc abuse different. you cant. because narc abuse ISNT REAL

also half of you guys aren’t even being abused by narcissists lmao. they’re just ordinary abusers who think they’re better than others. and you do not know enough to accurately diagnose them as a narcissist

let’s be real bro. the only reason people use the term ‘narc abuse’ is because it makes them feel special and like their abuse was somehow worse than everyone else’s even though it wasn’t

[harpooneclectic]

a lot of people who practice polyamory will find that it doesn’t work for them and will then shit on it

but it’s not POLYAMORY that’s the problem.

polyamory only works if you trust your partner to love you. you have to be able to trust them to keep loving you even if they get other partners.

if you cannot trust your partner to do that then polyamory will never work for you because you will be haunted by jealousy and the fear of your partner replacing you

which isn’t a personal attack on people who can’t do polyamory. you don’t HAVE to be able to do polyamory. there is nothing wrong with monogamy.

but polyamory itself isn’t the issue. polyamory itself can be done ethically and in a way that hurts nobody