Swelling of the Tide - scene
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Uzumaki aren't considered entirely weird by outsiders, but there are things that set them apart from the rest. By some very visible margins.
Like them being confused by lack of women's rights. Squinting at other’s lack of gender and sexuality spectrum.
These might actually be counted as the lighter margins here since they can be rationally explained. Uzushio is thriving, there is no need for more children and even if there was...adoption was highly encouraged.
One of the things Uzumaki and their umbrella clans become most famous for is...aggressive marriage arranging. Managing to marry into nearly every known family on the entire continent.
Some may yet resist, but Uzumaki have long memories and even longer archives. They can and will wait you out.
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