#synastry love

[cancerfairy]

hello :) how are uuu <3

can I ask you what your favourite synastry overlay/aspects are please? :) only if you want to answer it :))

hiiii omg i've been waiting for the day when someone asks me this, thank you 🛐

𝙼𝚢 𝙵𝚊𝚟𝚘𝚛𝚒𝚝𝚎 𝚂𝚢𝚗𝚊𝚜𝚝𝚛𝚢 𝙾𝚟𝚎𝚛𝚕𝚊𝚢𝚜/𝙰𝚜𝚙𝚎𝚌𝚝𝚜:

᯽ moon trine venus: with this aspect you and the other person likely have similar interests and similar tastes.. especially music taste. the connection feels so smooth and the venus person understands exactly what brings the moon person comfort. there's also an endless amount of forgiveness which could be dangerous since the moon person would continue to forgive the venus person. this aspect could make it hard to establish boundaries with the other.

᯽ moon trine moon: you two just get each other. although you may have slightly different ways of expressing love, you still understand each other's love language to make this connection feel safe and warm. it's easy to share your feelings with each other and open up when you have this aspect and it's also so calming to be in this persons presence. they're the type of person that helps you sleep at night.

᯽ moon opposite mercury: okay hear me out... although there are times when the mercury person doesn't understand a thing you're feeling or saying, there are also other times when they know exactly how you're feeling without you having to say a thing. there may be miscommunication at first but eventually you two kinda just "get" where the other is coming from. you can share your hobbies with this person and they'll receive it well.

᯽ ascendant sextile ascendant: you see the other in a positive light and you both see each other for who you are. this aspect makes it incredibly easy to become friends or have a quick bond because you two just automatically feel drawn to the other. from the first time you speak, you two just click :)

᯽ mars in 2nd house overlay: the way you'll just be in love with each other's voices and at the same time turned on.. i'm telling you this overlay is great. you or this person could also want to spoil the other a lot. one downside is that both could get very possessive of each other but neither says a thing about it.. it's just silent possessiveness. one good thing tho is that they'll boost your self esteem and likely give you a lot of compliments.

᯽ moon in the house of the sign it's in overlay: what i mean by this is if you have your moon in taurus in the 3rd and it overlays in another persons 2nd house (bc taurus rules the 2nd house). it's gonna feel very comfortable and natural to talk and express things to them. the same thing applies if that said person had a gemini moon (bc you have moon in the 3rd), it'd have a similar affect. for me, this placement is great because i tend to show my authentic side to people like this.

᯽ moon in 5h overlay: ugh this overlay is soo nice because you two will share the same hobbies and have much more fun doing them together than you would apart. it's like when the other person isn't there you've lost your joy. you're likely to both listen to a ton of music or make playlists for each other.

᯽ 6h synastry but specifically saturn in 6h overlay: these are the people who'll constantly ask how you are, how you slept, if you took a shower, if you drank enough water for the day. this is the most underrated synastry but this indicates a stable relationship where two people are always taking care of each other. this is great to have for marriage but it's so caring and nurturing in a silent way. this is a relationship where the other person will always check up on you and probably cook for you. this could also indicate talking everyday since the 6h rules routines.

᯽ i know what you're gonna say but yes... i'm a victim of liking 8h synastry (kinda): this synastry is ofc intense but it allows the other to open up and be understood in a way they never have before. at first it might feel uncomfortable to be vulnerable and share certain things with the other but they'll be the one to fully understand your struggles. when you have this synastry with someone you're most likely going to become obsessed with them. if you're not usually an obsessive person.. well too bad cause now you are. as much as i like the sexual tension and the attraction, it can become pretty dangerous as the other person will know exactly what to say to either bring you up (opposite of 2nd house of self worth) or take you right down to hell. it's even worse if you have 12h synastry but we'll get to that..

᯽ 12h synastry: as much as i like this synastry too it's just all too much for me sometimes. i do like the fact that i can dream about this person but they fill up my subconscious and idk how i feel about that. the amount of times you'll be thinking about this person is simply too much to count. the dreams can be prophetic and also reveal things about the person you wouldn't know unless they told you. moon & venus in this house makes you feel as though you'll never truly grasp the other persons true feelings for you.. you'll feel like they don't like you, even when they do and that's bc everything is hidden in this house. it's so easy to just romanticize the other person and that could be dangerous. for me, the worst planets in this overlay are mercury, sun & mars. with mercury, their words way a ton on my conscious and I'll over analyze everything they say. their words are easily misunderstood and communication is so hard. it could also lead to ghosting. with sun in this house it's hard to understand their true nature and true personality.. you feel like you're constantly being deceived. you can't tell which version is them. with mars in this house you'll have a lot of sexual dreams but you may also assume they're angry at you when they're not.. i've had this happen recently tbh. boundaries are very hard to enforce with these overlays. on the bright side, this overlay allows you two to have a sort of telepathic connection. you'll just understand exactly how the other person is feeling or thinking. you can easily feel like the other person is your soulmate. if it's a relationship, this overlay could have you two stuck in this little bubble of love and delusions.

᯽ sun trine uranus: honestly this placement is so fun and unpredictable like you could have really random and deep conversations with the other person. it's likely that you two change topics in a conversation a lot and you could learn so much from the other.

᯽ mars in 3rd house overlay: i love the friendly banter that comes with this aspect. it's literally so funny and you two fight like you're siblings sometimes so if you already have 3rd house placements in your natal chart this aspect with someone may feel sort of comforting. the downside is that one or both of you may offend the other a lot through jokes that the other took too seriously. otherwise, you might really enjoy the other persons voice or the way they talk.

᯽ 9h synastry: the amount of times you'll debate with this person could be fun and they'll teach you a lot but sometimes their views could be too much for you to handle. otherwise, it's really interesting to learn the other persons pov and have deep and insightful conversations especially if that's your kinda thing. if mercury is overlaying this house the other person becomes like a mentor and someone who can expand your interests and knowledge.

᯽ 10h synastry: so most people i have this with are on my mc and 10h synastry lowkey intimidates me. i like it because the person encourages and opens me up to new opportunities but they also kinda act as a mentor or authority figure to me. nevertheless, i love the support i get from the other person and they also often boost by reputation. i have this synastry with one of my friends on here who encouraged me to start making content on this account so this post is pretty much bc of her.

᯽ sun conjunct saturn: idk i kinda like it bc the saturn person brings the sun person back to reality and reminds them of their responsibilities. especially if the sun & saturn are in water signs. it just kinda helps ground the sun person even if the saturn person may be critical at times. a little criticism can go a long way to help the sun person grow.

᯽ neptune conjunct ascendant: i hate it and i love it. okay maybe i'm kinda sick of it but i'm used to it now since i've recognized that almost everyone of this generation is gonna have their neptune conjunct my ascendant. i love it bc it feels like i'm in a disney movie with the other person but i hate it because they idealize and romanticize me to the point where idek who theyre talking to anymore. to them, they'll never know the real me because there are too many versions in their head of me especially since i have neptune conjunct ascendant natally. the neptune person starts to make up and believe things in their head about the ascendant person which often times may not be true. they could see the absolute best in the ascendant person view them as someone who can do no harm.

᯽ mercury conjunct saturn: okay hear me out again... i have this natally so when i have this aspect with other people i just feel more comfortable speaking my truth and being myself like there is absolutely no filter with this aspect. the mercury person probably speaks very bluntly to the saturn person or vice versa. at times, saturn can be a bit mean and say unnecessary things but saturn means well, ok?

᯽ mercury-mercury (positive aspects): this is gonna be short but it's extremely easy to talk to the other person and they'll pretty much finish your sentences. you likely always think the same thing or atleast you think very similarly and that's great for communication ofc. the jokes here are always well received and you'll both speak and listen to each other often.

᯽ the infamous sun-moon conjunction: ive never experienced it till now but now i understand what you guys are always talking about.. it's literally great. it's a feeling of someone completely understanding your emotions, thoughts and all that you stand for. you rarely have to explain yourself to this person cause they're just gonna get it. they're your shoulder to cry on, your ear to rant to and your heart to give to.

᯽ mercury & venus in the 7th: if you thought i wasn't gonna talk about 7h synastry you're crazy. this synastry causes the two to feel like soulmates, like each other's missing half. when you have mercury overlaying someone's 7h you'll most likely wanna write love letters to the other or express your love for them endlessly. you might find yourself unable to stop talking about this person to other people too. you'd wanna shout your love for them on a rooftop or something. there's a similar affect for venus in the 7h but instead, you'll wanna spoil this person and you'd probably like being seen with them outside.

᯽ uranus 1st house overlay: yk what? i have this natally too and most people may not like it but i also have this with everyone in this generation so it makes me feel a little comfy cozy ok? this overlay can make the relationship feel really exciting and unpredictable and also a little chaotic at times but who doesn't like a little chaos am i right? it's fun and exuberant and i enjoy the many ups and downs this causes c:

⑅ general ones i don't wanna go into detail about:

᯽ mc synastry - the ones you have this synastry with can help improve your outward appearance or reputation. they encourage and support you often to go for what you want.

᯽ north node synastry - the north node person is meant to teach/guide you whether they realize it or not and you'll find yourself making great decisions with this person.

᯽ 4th house synastry - ive only had this platonically but it's easy to feel like yourself around people you have this with. many fond memories are made with this overlay and you two will understand each other the best.

[crystalsenergy]

how to observe love compatibility through the natal chart 💘✨ [1st method]

succinctly, i’ll reveal some of my ways to see the love compatibility according to the natal chart.

first look at the sign that is in the Descendant (7th house cusp) of the first person.

analyze if the sign of the Descendant (first person) is present in the Sun of the other person. (this can mean attraction and admiration for the other person's personality).

observe if the sign of the person's Descendant (first person) is present in the other's Venus (second person).

or, still, if the person’s Sun (second person) is in the house that is ruled by the sign that is in his/her Descendant (first person).

or, even, if person’s Venus (second person) is in the house that is ruled by the sign that is in his/her Descendant (first person)

examples: we will analyze step by step.

a fictional person named Beatrice has the following natal chart:

observing, we noticed that she has Ascendant in Libra. therefore, she has a Descendant in Aries. which means many things, among them:

- that she attracts an Aries person to her love life; - needs someone with characteristics of Aries in love; - that she is attracted to Aries people; - that an ideal person for her is the one with some Aries characteristic on her/his natal chart.

so let's suppose another fictional natal chart, from a potential partner for Beatrice, Helena:

coincidentally, Helena has Sun in Aries. which means that:

- she has some of the characteristics that Beatrice wants in someone, even if unconsciously;

- Beatrice may have a natural and inevitable attraction for Helena;

- she can look at Helena with the eyes of: wow, if i had a relationship with this person i would really like her way...;

- Beatrice can be whipped by this person and can't even explain it;

- and can believe that, even if unconsciously, Beatrice seeks Aries.

also, Helena has Venus in Aries. what does this imply?

- even more attraction between the two people, because with Venus in Aries Helena not only has Aries traits at the center of her personality, but also has the Aries way of loving, which is exactly what Beatrice seeks;

- things here will catch on fire, because Helena has exactly everything that Beatrice seeks [in Venus].

there isn’t any placement with 1st house - which rules Aries -, either in Sun or in Venus. instead, Helena has Venus in Aries in 11th house and Sun in Aries in 11th house.

one thing i would like to add to these two charts is that Beatrice has Venus in Aries too, which brings even more compatibility for both.

and then you can think: “but the sign of the 7th house is not the sign opposite to the person's Ascendant? why does this mean compatibility if the “ideal person” is one with a characteristic completely opposite to the way the other person works?”

to answer this question, we need to think about the MEANING OF 7TH HOUSE / DESCENDANT and how, even if unconscious, we do seek the opposite of what we are. we seek what is opposite to the way we show ourselves to the world, see ourselves and treat ourselves [these are meanings of Ascendant].

7th house represents our search for love, for that person who helps us to understand the opposite, what we lack in our way of treating ourselves and showing ourselves in the world. if opposing characteristics is difficult for you, i must remind you that without dealing with the differences inherent in every human being, we would NEVER evolve.

WHAT IS DESCENDANT? the Descendant is an angular house, represents the 7th house among the 12 existing in the zodiac, and shows us what are the characteristics that we look for in a person.

AND THE 7th HOUSE, WHAT DOES IT MEAN? it’s the same thing as the Descendant, and when we talk about the meanings of the 7th house, we have relationships, especially loving ones, also partnerships, how we want to relate to others, love, art, how we see others, how we treat others, our projection.

WHAT IS ASCENDANT? it's the way we treat ourselves, how we see ourselves, the first impression passed to the world, beginnings, vitality, temperament, physical, how we care about ourselves, how people see us - superficially, how we fight for ourselves [if we fight and to what extent it occurs].

2nd example: Allison & Danny

Allison has Descendant in Sagittarius

so he looks for someone to bring him: - optimism, good humor; - someone that can be expansive and interested; - that brings less dispersion; - more desire to go deeper into things; - less superficiality; - more of that ambiguous desire to be with a person [without wanting to jump from branch to branch like Gemini does brilliantly] and still have freedom; - less inconstancy; - more certainty of what you believe and less inconstancy and doubt [for others and for yourself] about it, that every hour find something and never seem to have a definition in your head.

to move on to the next points, let's assume another fictional chart, from Allison's potential partner, Danny:

he has Sun in Sagittarius, which means that:

- supplies part [keep this: not the whole] of what Allison wants, because he is a Sagittarius at the center of his personality, therefore, he has the characteristics of an open, expansive person, who seeks freedom, who is optimistic, funny, etc etc, the Sag characteristics - naturally Allison will admire Danny, because he is looking for a person with Sagittarius characteristics. - Allison will be attracted to Danny, aware of it or not

coincidentally, in this fictional situation, Danny has Venus in Sagittarius, which means that:

- his way of loving is Sagittarius; - he wants to be loved in a Sagittarian way; - and this is exactly what Allison seeks; - remember that up there i said that his Sun in Sag supplies part of what Allison wants in love? because then: in love we admire the person, his characteristics, ways and bad ways, but that's not all that counts. his way of loving [and wanting to be loved] counts for a LOT in the relationship. so, this Venus here helps a lot more, completing the needs of Allison’s Descendant

Danny doesnt have 9th house in the Sun or Venus.

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things that i want to punctuate:

- look at the chart as a whole, dont ignore any relevant placement. - dont feel bad if the signs or house dont match in a direct way, we always have to look at things in a more wide sight. - love compatibility also has to do with mutual efforts.

so that was it. this is one of the ways to analyze loving compatibility between two natal charts. there are some others, which i'll bring in later posts.

i hope it was helpful, xx.

[crystalsenergy]

como observar a compatibilidade amorosa com alguém pelo mapa astral [método 1]

de forma breve e sucinta, vou falar as formas que adoto para ver a compatibilidade com alguém segundo o mapa astral

1º primeiro olhe para o signo que está no Descendente

2º depois, analise se o signo do descendente da pessoa está presente no Sol da outra.

3º observar se se o signo do descendente da pessoa está presente na Vênus da outra.

4º ou, ainda, se o Sol está na casa que é regida pelo signo que está no seu descendente.

5º ou, ainda, se a Vênus está na casa que é regida pelo signo que está no seu descendente.

Exemplos: vamos analisar por cada passo.

uma pessoa chamada Luana tem o seguinte mapa:

1º observando, notamos que ela tem Ascendente em Libra. Logo, ela tem Descendente em Áries. o que significa muitas coisas, dentre elas:

- que ela atrai uma pessoa ariana para a sua vida amorosa; - necessita de alguém com características arianas no amor; - que ela tem atração por pessoas arianas; - que a sua forma de ser preenchida é a forma de Áries; - que uma pessoa ideal para ela é aquela com alguma característica de Áries em seu mapa.

Vamos então supor outro mapa fictício, de uma potencial parceira de Luana, a Helena:

2º coincidentemente, ela tem Sol em Áries. o que significa que:

- ela possui algumas das características que a Luana deseja em alguém, mesmo que inconscientemente; - a Luana pode ter uma atração natural e inevitável pela Helena; - pode olhar para ela com olhos de: nossa, se eu me relacionasse com essa pessoa eu ia gostar muito do jeito dela...; - a Luana fica whipped por essa pessoa e nem mesmo consegue explicar; - e pode acreditar que, mesmo que de forma inconsciente, a Luana busca alguém ariana. 

3º mais uma coincidência: a Helena tem Vênus em Áries. o que isso implica?

- ainda mais atração entre as duas pessoas, pois com vênus em áries a Helena não tem só traços arianos no centro de sua personalidade, mas também tem a forma ariana de amar, que é exatamente o que a Luana busca; - as coisas aqui vão pegar fogo, porque a Helena tem exatamente tudo que a A busca [na Vênus].

4º não se observa a presença de nenhum posicionamento com casa 1 - que rege Áries -, seja em Sol ou em Vênus. a Helena tem Vênus em Áries na 11 e Sol em Áries na 11.

uma coisa que gostaria de acrescentar desses dois mapas é que a Luana possui Vênus em Áries também, o que traz ainda mais compatibilidade para as duas.

e então você pode pensar: mas o signo da casa 7 não é o signo oposto ao Asc da pessoa? por que isso significa compatibilidade se a “pessoa ideal” é aquela com uma característica completamente oposta à forma da outra pessoa funcionar? 

para responder essa pergunta, precisamos pensar no SIGNIFICADO DA CASA 7 / DESCENDENTE e de como, mesmo que inconscientes, buscamos sim o oposto ao que somos, buscamos o que é oposto à forma que nos mostramos ao mundo, nos vemos e nos tratamos [esses são significados de Ascendente]. 

a casa 7 representa a nossa busca por amor, por aquela pessoa que nos ajude a entender o oposto, o que falta em nós na nossa forma de nos tratar e de nos mostrarmos no mundo. se para você oposição de características é dificuldade, devo te lembrar que sem lidar com as diferenças inerentes a todo ser humano não evoluímos NUNCA.

O QUE É O DESCENDENTE?

O Descendente é uma casa angular, representa a 7ª casa dentre as 12 existentes no zodíaco, e nos mostra quais são as características que buscamos em uma pessoa.

E A CASA 7, O QUE SIGNIFICA?

É a mesma coisa que o Descendente, e quando falamos de significados da casa 7, temos os relacionamentos, em especial os amorosos, também as parcerias, como queremos nos relacionar com os outros, o amor, a arte, como vemos os outros, como tratamos os outros, nossa projeção para os outros.

O QUE É O ASCENDENTE?

é a forma que nos tratamos, como nos vemos, como reagimos conosco, a primeira impressão passada ao mundo, começos, vitalidade, temperamento, físico [como ele é, como tratamos ele], como nos preocupamos conosco, como as pessoas nos veem - de forma superficial, como lutamos por nós [se lutamos e em que intensidade isso ocorre].

vamos fazer mais um? [coro: vamos~]

exemplo 2: um mapa de um cara chamado Allison:

1º Allison possui Descendente em Sagitário 

portanto ele busca uma pessoa que traga para ele: - otimismo, bom humor; - seja expansiva e interessada; - que traga menos dispersão; - mais desejo de se aprofundar nas coisas; - menos superficialidade; - mais daquele desejo ambíguo de estar com uma pessoa [sem querer pular de galho em galho como gêmeos faz de forma brilhante] e ainda assim ter liberdade; - menos inconstância; - mais certeza do que acredita e menos inconstância e dúvida [para os outros e para si] acerca disso, aquilo de cada hora achar uma coisa e nunca parecer ter uma definição em sua cabeça.

para partir para os próximos pontos, vamos então supor outro mapa fictício, do potencial parceiro do Allison, o Danny:

2º ele tem Sol em Sagitário, o que significa que:

- supre bem parte [guarde isso: não o todo] do que o Allison quer, pois ele no centro de sua personalidade é sagitariano, portanto, possui as características de uma pessoa aberta, expansiva, que busca liberdade, que é otimista, engraçada, etc etc, as características sagitarianas - naturalmente Allison vai admirar o Danny, porque ele busca uma pessoa com características sagitarianas. - Allison será atraído por Danny, consciente disso ou não

3º coincidentemente, nessa situação fictícia, o Danny tem Vênus em Sagitário, o que significa que:

- a sua forma de amar é sagitariana; - ele quer ser amado de forma sagitariana; - e isso é exatamente o que o Allison busca; - lembre que ali em cima eu disse que o Sol em Sagita dele supre parte do que o Allison quer no amor? pois então: no amor admiramos a pessoa, as suas características, jeitos e mal jeitos, mas não é só isso que conta. a forma dele de amar [e de querer ser amado] conta e MUITO na hora do relacionamento. então, essa Vênus aqui ajuda muito mais, completando as necessidades da casa 7 / Descendente.

4º não há presença da casa 9 de Sagita no Sol ou em Vênus.

então foi isso. essa é uma das formas de analisar compatibilidade amorosa entre dois mapas astrais. existem algumas outras, que trarei em posts posteriores.

espero que tenha sido útil, qualquer coisa me envie uma dúvida via ask ou chat.

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