I feel like xenogender sometimes falls under a certain category of “aesthetic” and not a gender identity or community
I’m xenic and I’m not saying it isn’t a gender, I just wish we talked more about the dysphoria of being xenogender or how expressing your xenogender identity by dressing a type of way may be “weird” to some people and how frustrating that is. I feel like that’s left in the dark.
I just need something to relate to when I’m feeling down about being xenogender because I feel like none of us talk about xenogenders outside of “look at this pretty new flag”
We need a sense of community that’s formed by honest words and not just the happy aesthetics the term was painted to be :/











