I don't think anyone's actually compiled a list for terms like this yet (if there is one I can't find it) but I feel like compiling a list of gender terms that are equivalents to man/boy and woman/girl. Mostly because I want to coin things but I have no way of searching tags for every single possible post where people have coined terms. (And for as far as I can tell, wikis don't tend to list terms like this.)
Feel free to comment, reblog, or send me asks about established terms I can add. The format of this post will be like as follows. The "example" terms below are terms decently used in the queer community.
Man - Generally used for older male and masculine gender/presenting individuals, but doesn't have to be. The plural form being Men.
Boy - Generally used for younger male and masculine gender/presenting individuals, but doesn't have to be. The plural form being Boys.
Woman - Generally used for older female and feminine gender/presenting individuals, but doesn't have to be. The plural form being Women.
Girl - Generally used for older younger and feminine gender/presenting individuals, but doesn't have to be. The plural form being Girls.
Enban - Generally used as the Nonbinary equivalent to Man/Woman. The plural form being Enben.
Enby - Generally used as the Nonbinary equivalent to Boy/Girl. The plural form being Enbies.
Below are terms that may be less known, or generally specific to certain genders. This section is where I'll add new terms when people tell me them. For terms without a plural form listed, I'd personally just go the adding a S to the end route, example being Xip which doesn't have an "official" plural form, so I'd personally just write Xips.
Aether or Aethan - The Aetherine equivalent to Man/Woman. The plural form being Aethen.
Tumen - The Altumen equivalent to Man/Woman. The plural form being Tumens.
Altu - The Altumen equivalent to Man/Woman. The plural form being Altus.
Omen - The Kenochoric equivalent to Man/Woman. The plural form being Omens, or Omenim (formal).
Hex - The Kenochoric equivalent to Boy/Girl. The plural form not being listed.
Metan or Metix - The Mechaneve equivalent to Man/Woman. The plural form being Meten or Mex.
Horror - The Occuine equivalent to Man/Woman.* The plural form not being listed. (* Being generally listed as the "adult" version)
View - The Occuine equivalent to Boy/Girl.* The plural form not being listed. (* Being generally listed as the "minor" version)
Scalan - The Scalecosmic equivalent to Man/Woman.* The plural form being Scalen. (* Being generally listed as the "adult" version)
Smic - The Scalecosmic equivalent to Boy/Girl.* The plural form being Smics. (* Being generally listed as the "young" version)
Idat - The Twistidatian/Intwistian equivalent to Man/Woman. The plural form being Idatin.
Int - The Twistidatian/Intwistian equivalent to Boy/Girl. The plural form being Inted.
Diast or Diastan - The Diastine equivalent to Man/Woman. The plural form being Diasts or Diasten.
Asti - The Diastine equivalent to Boy/Girl. The plural form being Astis.
Xenan - The Xenine/Xenogender equivalent to Man/Woman. The plural form being Xenen.
Xip - The Xenine/Xenogender equivalent to Boy/Girl. The plural form not being listed.
Cutethin or Cutan - The Cuteseyic equivalent to Man/Woman. The plural form being Cuten.
Candel - The Luxine equivalent to Man/Woman. The plural form not being listed.
Lumin - The Luxine equivalent to Boy/Girl. The plural form not being listed.
Omin - The ANLTiN/Angelettric equivalent to Man/Woman. The plural form not being listed.
Gelet - The ANLTiN/Angelettric equivalent to Boy/Girl. The plural form not being listed.
Teknit - The Tekneo equivalent to Man/Woman. The plural form not being listed.
Exen - The Tekneo equivalent to Boy/Girl. The plural form not being listed.
Hazox - The Hazexiv equivalent to Man/Woman. The plural form not being listed.
Tox - The Hazexiv equivalent to Boy/Girl. The plural form not being listed.
Ceros - The Hypnoceras equivalent to Man/Woman. The plural form not being listed.
Axon - The Hypnoceras equivalent to Boy/Girl. The plural form not being listed.
Under this section I will also include terms that aren't the equivalent to man/woman/boy/girl, but are just terms describing a person/individual in general. I'd probably include butch/futch/femme under this section due to how some folks use them as descriptors, but they're generally well enough known so won't be listing them.
Nonbin - Generally used as a term to describe a Nonbinary individual. The plural form being Nonbins.
Fera - A Feruvel person/individual. The plural form not being listed.
Kenore or Chori - A Kenochoric person/individual. The plural form being Kenores or Choris/Chories.
Lecosm - A Scalecosmic person/individual. The plural form being Lecosms.
Rank - A Warfaren person/individual. The plural form not being listed.
