#termonology

[solarpixels48]

Just a teeny, tiny, itty, bitty nitpick.

Why is it "trans women are women", but at the same time we call bio women "cis-women" or just "cis".

What's the double standard here?

[bingzhong]

“You can’t say that!”

It annoys the shit out of me when people say, “why do you say ‘nigga’? You’re not black.” Lemme ask you—why do you say “dude”, “homie”, “bruh”? You’re not part of a surf crew, from the hood, or a Blood. I grew up saying it because I was made fun of for not saying it. Certain terms and sayings are based around how the person grows up.

As quoted by /u/YouGameGoofy:

“[Where I grew up, the East Bay, there’s] Oakland, CA which is the statistically most integrated and diverse city in America. In certain areas of East Oakland, blacks, Asians, Latinos and even whites all live together and intermingle. The multiculturalism that exists there makes most American people, who have been indoctrinated to be racist since birth, feel uncomfortable.

People from outside of Northern California have trouble understanding the mind-blowing diversity and integration that exists in the downtrodden areas of cities like Sacramento, Oakland, Vallejo and San Francisco. In some of these places, it seems race temporarily ceases to exist.

http://www.sfgate.com/bayarea/article/OF-RACE-AND-PLACE-San-Antonio-Oakland-Flavors-2815969.php

After all, race is fundamentally a white invention used to not only subjugate other races in relation to whites, but also to divide minorities amongst each other. It is both sad and ironic that some of the poorest areas of one the statistically most dangerous cities on this side of the planet is one of the only places where Asian American men are actually celebrated and accepted for who they are surrounded by people of all colors.”

When you tell someone, “you can’t say this because it’s not politically correct!”, you’re being hypocrite. It’s the same ideology when people here Chinese people say “ni ga” which means, “this”, or, “that one.” To us, “nigga” is OUR dude. And you’re probably gonna ask, “what if someone said ‘sup my chink’? Or, ‘what’s good, beaner?’” Fuck it, dude! Let ‘em! Because THEY’RE the bigots for asking, let alone thinking ANYONE says that in any place as form of endearment. We’re a mixing pot of the finest and culturally accepted. 

So if you want to stand “politically correct” then that’s fine—but don’t tell us, East Bay kids, how to fucking talk or act just because you fit into a fucking system of “right and wrong”. We’re perfectly fine the way we are.

[purpleknite]

things about books

I thoroughly enjoyed this here little informative page: http://www.tor.com/blogs/2008/08/bookterms

Quite handy in the writing of my next short story: Elsa and the Cedar Box (title tentative)

[miodaisgay]

Whats that called when you're agender and asexual and like girls. Its not pan..

[lisforlibido]

I don't know if my sense of humor is getting duller, or I'm just taking a liking to Greek history but I just found out that the Liver was the "Seat of Emotions" according to ancient Greeks and proceeded to laugh so hard I cried..

[shanefamealexander]

Dear World. Stop using the word `Selfie'. Thanks

[clothdiaperdude]

Cloth Diaper Dude’s Cloth Diaper Terminology Guide

When I first started looking into using cloth, I had literally had a hand’s on experience with one reusable diaper.  Now, I knew they weren't the bottom covers of yesteryear that make some of our parents cringe when we even suggest the idea of using them, but I didn't know about the plethora of types and terms you'd need to comprehend to understand “cloth people.”  

So here you have it - a fairly comprehensive guide to the terms you’ll find when people discuss cloth diapers.  Don’t get overwhelmed, it really is a lot easier than it sounds:

Section 1:

Diaper Varieties: 

Prefolds/Flats: These are what you picture when you think of an “ol’ time” cloth diaper.  They’re a rectangle of fabric that needs to be folded in order to provide coverage.  Prefolds are not waterproof, thus they *MUST* be used with a cover (unless you want an “uh-oh” moment).  Here’s a link to a blog that explains some of the ways you can fold flat dipes - Adventures in Fluff.

Fitted Diapers: Fitted diapers are generally made out of very absorbent fabrics and are often good for use at night (or any time of the day if you have a heavy wetter of a bub!).  They are sized and generally have Aplix or snap closures so they will fit your baby snugly.  Many fitted diapers that are designed for newborns have an adjustable rise to accommodate a healing umbilical cord stump.  Fitted dipes can take a bit longer to dry than a prefold and *MUST* be used along with a waterproof cover.  However, there’s no folding involved in this style of diaper.

Diaper Covers: Diaper covers are a simple waterproof shell that fits over prefold or fitted diapers to prevent leakage.  They are often sized for a proper fit, but many have snap adjustments to get things nice and snug.  

All-In-One Diapers (AKA AIO Diapers): All-in-one diapers are designed like disposable diapers that you wash.  The baby gets it dirty, off it goes into the wash and you put a new one on!  TADA!  AIO’s consist of an outer waterproof shell and an inner absorbent layer (or layers).  The diaper closes and adjusts with Aplix or snaps  Some AIO’s have a place to fit a soaker - an extra piece of fabric that can be inserted if you have a heavy wetter.  This design is very simple and is especially good if you have to leave your child in the hands of the cloth diaper wary.  AIO diapers are generally trim fitting. They can take a while to dry and are one of the more pricey options.

Pocket Diapers: Pocket diapers consist of a waterproof shell and are designed with an opening in the interior fabric for an insert (or a prefold).  Sometimes the inserts are included with the pocket diapers, while other times you purchase them separately  allowing for the customization of fibers (hemp vs microfiber vs minky, etc).  Many styles have features to adjust the rise as your baby grows and closure options are Aplix or snaps. Pocket diapers are easy to use, but keep in mind that they do need to be washed each time your baby uses one (you can’t just replace the insert).  There’s a little work to be done in stuffing the diapers to get them ready for wear, but once you’re used to it - it goes quickly!  Pocket dipes dry faster than AIO’s because the bulk of the diaper is in the insert.

All-In-2 Diapers (AKA AI2 Diapers):  All-in-2 diapers have a waterproof shell and a removable absorbent insert, but unlike pocket diapers, the insert sits directly against the baby.  This way, if the baby has a reasonable mess, you just snap out the dirty insert, check to make sure the shell is still clean, and snap in a clean one.  I’m a big fan of AI2 diapers as they’re easy to use, trim fitting and quick drying.  They come with both Aplix and snap closures.

  Wool Soaker:  Wool is an amazing fiber for diaper covers.  Due to it’s lanolin content, these covers can hold up to 30% of their weight in moisture before they begin to feel damp to the touch.  They’re very breathable, so wool is a great choice for babies prone to diaper rash.  Wool does require hand washing and special care.  (We’ll talk more about that in the future.)

Hybrid Diapers: There’s a great debate stirring in cloth diapering circles whether hybrid diapers even count as cloth.  But I’m just providing you facts here, so….A hybrid diaper is a waterproof cover with either Aplix or snap closures, that is used on top of a disposable absorbant insert.  Once the insert is soiled it is discarded.  The cover, however, can be washed and reused.  

Section 2:

Diaper Terminology and Accessories:

Aplix: Aplix is a a type of hook and loop fastener used as a closure on diapers.  Think of it like Velcro.

PUL: PUL is the acronym for Polyurethane Laminate Fabric. It was originally designed for use in the medical industry, but has now found a new use in the waterproof shells of cloth diapers.

Minky: Minky is an uber soft synthetic material that is often used on the outside of diapers.  It feels a lot like a bunny.  Seriously.

Gussets: A gusset is an elasticized row of fabric at the edge of the leg openings of the diaper that’s used to contain any messes.  Some brands of diapers have double gussets, to insure everything stays where it belongs (most of the time.)

Diaper Doublers: A doubler may look like an insert for a pocket diaper, but it serves a whole different purpose.  A doubler is meant to add a bit of extra absorbency right next to your baby’s skin, thus using a fiber that wicks away moisture is an ideal choice.  You’ll find many doublers with fleece or microfiber as a top layer.  Doublers also are designed to add as little bulk as possible to the diaper.

Snappi:  A Snappi is this generations diaper pin.  It’s a flexible “T” shaped plastic fastener with grippers on all sides that are designed to connect to the fabric of prefold diapers with no risk of poking!  (I have heard that these work best with cotton flats and that people have had issues getting them to work with other fabrics.)

Liners: Liners can be made of strips of cloth (some people make them out of what they have around) or can be paper that is flushable. They’re used inside diapers to keep the mess from poop under control.  Some people like to use them to keep staining down, while others use them if they are using a non-cloth-diaper-friendly diaper cream. 

Diaper Sprayer: An ingenious device that attaches easily to your toilet and allows you to pre-rinse your diapers, keeping an excess of poop out of the washing machine.  Warning:  learn about the pressure of your diaper sprayer and use with caution to avoid horrific outcomes.

Wet Bag: Wet bags are usually designed for diaper bags or travel.  They are lined with PUL or another waterproof material and generally close with a zipper to keep odors and liquids contained.  When you get home, turn your wet bag inside out and wash everything together!

Stash: The “diaper slang” term for how many diapers you have.  Yes, this can officially be a bragging right.

Stripping: Not what it used to mean when you were younger… Now it’s the way to remove built up residue and soap from your cloth diapers.  There are a lot of different methods and opinions on the best way to strip diapers.

Wicking:  Wicking technically means ” the process whereby the fibers in a cloth garment draw perspiration away from the skin  and up to the surface of the fabric.”  This is what we want in a diaper.  Wicking can also refer to the transfer of moisture that happens when an insert isn’t properly tucked into a pocket and that insert then touches the baby’s clothes.  Then you have a wet, wicked mess.

Fluff - Most often paired with the word “mail.”  It means someone is expecting a shipment of diapers.  Fluff refers to the diapers.  I refuse to use this term at this point in time.

[ascendeddaeva]

Termonology! ( Asmodian screenshots)

Hello fellow Daevas! Time to teach you about some of the acronyms in Aion.

Aggro- I assume it is short for Aggravated. It is a term used for when you want the enemy to attack you and no one else. Such as, "Stop hitting it, I need aggro or you'll all die." Or in the event that you have attracted an enemy(ies) such as "whoops, I aggroed. Sorry guys."

AOE- Area of Effect. This means the enemy you're fighting has an attack that can hurt more than one person.

Pat- Patrol. This means there are one or more enemies roaming towards you and they're trying to warn you of it.

Mob- This is just another word for enemies. such as, "I've got to kill that mob over there for a quest"

Camp- This can mean either "Campaign Quests" or "Camping". It's mostly used for 'campaign quests' such as someone saying "Want to do camps with me?" but if it used as "Elyos camp" or "Asmos camp" then it's someone warning you that there are a bunch of Elyos/Asmos camping near by.

FT- Can mean either "Fire Temple" or "Fast Track''. The only way to tell the difference is through the context. Most people will spell them out due to this confusion.

 'Pull!' - when you are a templar in a group, they are referring to this skill. It's called Doom Lure and is a stigma obtainable at lv 22.

If you play any other class and someone tells you to pull; the idea is to use any far-ranged attack you may have that won't cause all of the enemies to come at you.

There are plenty more I didn't cover. If you have any questions feel free to send an ask.