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Dear ESTP, it’s fantastic to see how you grow into your Fe and suddenly become so community-conscious.

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tert Fe is accidentally hurting someone over something really minor while being slightly self absorbed and then not wanting to see that person for at least three weeks because you feel weirdly bad but don't wanna say anything about it

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Argumentative ENTPs

What's with this stereotype?? Like I know it's a stereotype and just a joke most of the time but still??? ENFPs are way more argumentative (but we'll get to that later). In my experience ENTPs are not very argumentative at all. Like, Ti will poke a whole or two in your logic if we feel it's deserved (or I've seen some do it in excess if they really dislike the person) but that's a different thing. Arguing isn't the same as pointing out flaws. I often do it to help other people realize flaws so they can fix them and improve whatever they're doing (if they decide to take it personally, that's not my fault. But I am working on doing it more nicely). People say tert Fe tries to get reactions from people, but only really childish ENTPs (or actual children) would go on with arguing forever. Eventually the socially-aware-and-caring parts of Fe kick in and they knock it off. And even if it didn't, most ENTPs have other (granted, often more weird) ways of getting reactions/attention from others. Honestly, in my experience ENFPs are much much more argumentative than any ENTP I've met. ENFPs often lack the Fe to know when to stop and Fi seems to empower them to want to "be right" so the arguments just keep going. My brother, my dad, and my best friend are all ENFPs. They want the attention and reaction at LEAST as much as your average ExTP. My brother will taunt and infuriate his classmates over political differences when he knows basically nothing of politics. When I suggest that's not a great idea, he responds, "But it's so funny." My ENFP best friend started poking fun at me in a group chat over a silly mistake and kept trying to one-up me and make me look dumb, seemingly just for the sake of "winning." Later I talked to him about it and assured me he was never actually mad and didn't actually care. That doesn't mean I didn't. Lack of Fe -> doesn't consider others -> doesn't know when to stop (this is a generalization. Not true for all, but for many Fi users I know). I love him, but gosh I really hate him sometimes. When Ti users do argue a lot, it at least is founded in some form of logic, typically. Whereas I see Fi users pull at anything that they think could help them. Which is all the more frustrating when I'm trying to talk about improvement from a logical standpoint. So yeah for real, what's up with the argumentative ENTP stereotype? It's the ENFPs, not us. I'm not offended or anything and I don't want ENFPs to be, I just wish there was a more accurate stereotype for making MBTI memes and stuff. Ya know? What are your thoughts and experiences on this?

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How often does tert Fe *not* manifest as being kind of an asshole, but instead a lack of awareness/intuition socially, low emotional awareness, etc, but still wanting to care for others and be "nice", even if they aren't great at it?

Fe is a judging and not a perceiving function. so having Fe does -not- grant you any kind of emotional/social awareness or an ability to read others, regardless of where it is in the stacking.

(Se is responsible for people-reading-skills, not Fe, that’s why ENFJs can do it but ESFJs suck at it)

> how oftendoes tert Fe *not* manifest as being kind of an asshole

never. tert Fe is always asshole, just like tert Te is always bossy. even with 9-fix. that’s just the nature of extroverted judging; you express your opinions and judge your environment. and there is no such thing as “soft judging”

> but still wanting to care for others and be “nice”, even if they aren’t great at it

depends on who you mean with “others” but if it’s “friends” then it’s a normal person thing.

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