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3, 7 and 24 :)

3. What is your favorite grounding tool?

when i first read these this morning, my answer was “we never use grounding and usually prefer being ungrounded which is bad but the truth” but then earlier i was outside smoking and i noticed some buzzing by the tree in my backyard and there were a tonnn of bees doing their thing and normally we’d be scared of any insects but we got close up to it and watched them for a long time while listening to the birds sing and the wind blow on our skin and realized that was practicing grounding using our senses so yay we did it lmao (and i guess to answer the question, that type is our favorite- using our senses in nature)

7. What aspect of recovering do you look forward to the most?

umm, all of us feeling at peace with all parts of us. less inner conflicts. more cooperation and compassion.

24. Do you prefer internal (like thought and feeling) or external (like written notes) communication with alters?

definitely internal more, though it’s not as clear. but writing is pretty anxiety and denial provoking so we avoid it a lot

thanks for asking 😬

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►Mahoutsukai no Yome 「 AMV 」- Beautiful Creatures♫

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3, 6 and 11 :)

3. Do you have different handwritings? Give an example.

We do, although some of them are very similar but to us anyway, they seem distinctively different. Spacing, flow of the letters, italics or regular.

There’s some that are more distinctively different but the content of the writings is more private, nearly all our notebooks are packed at the moment D:

6. Who in the system are you closest to and why?

Josh and JoJo are closest to each other because they’re twins and prev co-fronts/hosts. JoJo and Tay because they were dating in the past. Skye and Ronja because they’re basically as old and have an inworld relationship as old as their existence. I also think many of us feel close to Skye because he’s like a safe friend that’s keeping tabs on the system internally and externally. But overall our communication directly or otherwise isn’t very good at this point, but we’re trying our best.

11. Which songs remind you of DID / OSDD?

Uhhhh this is a difficult one because we as a whole don’t listen to music that much and when we do it’s either because of romantic interest that remind of our spirit spouses or it’s something specific like christian songs? Or then it’s ambient music. There might be some old songs that Josh and JoJo listened to where they would duet to their soulmate or each other? The songs would probably be very personal interpersonal relations-reminding ones rather than generally DID/OSDD reminding ones, I suspect. I think though someone said Adam Lambert, and just now the song about the ‘here for your entertainment’ popped up. Lemme pull that song up and listen to it. --- Well more than that one, Adam Lambert - Welcome to the Show and Ghost Town, Runnin’, Mad World. But it’s all very personal rather than general.

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Hey hey, how are y'all doing? Haven't heard from you in while

Hey!! <3 We are less than two full weeks from our temporary move bc the apartment’s time to get renovated (totally new everything, so excited!!!) so we’ve been trying to focus on packing as well as we’ve started the diagnosing (which will unfortunately take at least until summer cuz the diagnostic test they’re doing with us is a huge pile of questions, I mean, like it’s half inch thick booklet of A4′s and we only have meetings set every two weeks, plus they’ll be gone on vacation for a month so there’ll be a break bc of that too augh). So I’ve been co-con with Skye (Reetta, fairly newly named if the name will stick idk) to tackle these with as little stress on ourself as possible! But then, I have derealization problems that the others have exhibited very little in the past but not too frequent to cause a concern yet I think. Altho I say co con with Skye, I think Skye’s focused on internally keeping us together while I focus on the outside! But he’s still around. Says hi! and not to worry :DToday we were hanging around the city for a bit, went second hand shopping mainly fronted by one of the unnamed young ones and came home, watched kids cartoons on TV, had pizza with extra cheese and well, had a bit of an upset that we recovered from a little while ago. Sitting with our furry stuffed animals still though getting sleepy (it’s 11.12pm) I’m so happy you checked in on us :D Please tell us how you guys have been?? <3

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Happy birthday! 🎉 I hope today treats you kindly and that you have lots of fun at the aquarium 💙

Thank you so much friends! We had a wonderful time at the aquarium!!! It was a great day.

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5,6 and 9

5. Has any conventional advice for DID ever not worked for you (journaling is unhelpful, can’t visualize an inner world, etc)?

the inner world thing definitely doesn’t work for all of us, most of us actually. and we’ve tried journaling but focusing on any system communication has been causing a lot of denial and anxiety lately.

6. What does “safety” mean for you?

that’s hard. right now, for most of us, isolation is safety. my wife is the only person who is safe.

9. Is there anything that makes you feel like your experience with DID is “different” than what you see other people with DID talk about?

yeah i guess the fact that we all identify as the body, like even if we have our own names we’re still all “body name” but at different ages and we look that way too, besides eye and hair color we like to play with those when we make ourselves on picrew.

thanks for asking! :)

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3, 14 and 16

3. Who is the oldest and who’s the youngest alter?

we have a three year old part that i won’t name, and i’d say vixen and i are the oldest. she’s the only other one that seems to age with the body too

14. How has being a system effected your friendships?

ooooof lots of ways. mostly bad. it’s just made me very inconsistent and that can be hard for some friends. and of course each part having their own attachment styles can cause conflict both external and internal. varying levels of friendship and connection for different parts also has an impact.

16. What are nice things you do for each other?

??? idk? i guess some of us being protective is considered nice. other than that there’s not much i can think of that we intentionally do to be nice to each other

thanks for asking!!

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abandoned barn - for the woodland asks

have you ever explored an abandoned building?

yep! and it was super anxiety provoking bc we’re terrified of getting in trouble. but one was this creeeepy old barn that was halfway destroyed. the other one was an old grain factory. idk if it caught fire or what happened but we had to climb up this ladder on the side of the building and i was soooo scared lmao but inside was worse because the floor was collapsed in some areas and it just wasn’t safe at all but it was cool looking lol

thanks for asking

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