#thebilife

[jgbogus]

badass warrior women AND men >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

[babywillow27]

So, in honor of Pride Month, I wanna share my coming out story.

When I was 12/13, I had an online girlfriend. She was so sweet and I can honestly say I loved her lol.

Well, my mother decided she was gonna go through my instant messages for one reason or another. She legit didn't give me a reason. But it was late at night and I had been upstairs in bed. She called me down stairs (where my computer was).

So she sees I've called this girl my girlfriend and we were talking about our sexualities.

I wish I could tell you I was kidding but she beat the living shit out of me. Like beating me so bad, I had bruises all over.

I don’t know if she thought she could beat the "gay" out of me or what, but it was terrifying.

At this point, its about 2 am and she decides to call my very religious, catholic grandparents. AT 2 AM!

Shes going on and on with my grandma how this isn't right, blah blah blah and then hands me the phone.

I could hear the sleepiness in my grandmas voice. And my grandma tries to explain to me that this MIGHT just be a phase. So, to get her off the phone and back into bed I agree with her.

Then my mother sends me back to bed.

****

I hadn't planned to come out, I was outted. And once I was out I wasn't allowed to talk about it, she shamed me for it, laughed and mocked me for it, for a long ass time I couldn't have ANY kind of friends over or leave the house. She grounded me for being bisexual. I wasn't allowed to be bisexual. It was forcefully, brutally ingrained into my head that I was a disgrace.

It has taken me so long to even be comfortable around women in a romantic setting. And I still get nervous; I shake like crazy.

In the itty-bitty back of my mind I'm waiting to get beaten for holding hands with a girl, kissing a girl, loving a girl.

Through the course of my life, being anything but straight was so shameful.. I'll tell you about it another time.

[disneyprinceronweasley]

i love that courtney has gone from being a contestant on a dating show to the host

[anawkwardencounter]

For this years #nationalcomingoutday I would like to highlight and give thanks to @channel4 and @eonlineuk for their new shows #TheBisexual and #TheBiLife 💖💜💙 given that bisexuality is so invisible and marginalised even (by some) within the queer community itself, I thought we were years away from seeing such shows on TV and it makes me so so happy and feels my heart with such warmth and support!! Thank you 😊 🏳️‍🌈 #bivisibility #bisexualpride https://www.instagram.com/p/Boy4cquBfb6/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=imx302xrq14p

[babywillow27]

I wish I could have you back..

[babywillow27]

It was so beautiful outside yesterday, I couldn't help but smile.

[babywillow27]

I got my side reshaved the other day.

[babywillow27]

I dyed my hair.. and hadn't played with a new editing app I downloaded.. so here's a 2 in 1.