it's like just unbelievable how much easier it is to figure out gender stuff when I just. mentally ask the other versions of me.
"huh I wonder what I'll think about the name theo next time I'm a boy" *png of boy me with a thumbs up emoji gets beamed into my mind*
"hey girl me what about they/xe/she? so then you still get she but I can put some of my real pronouns first in our bio?" "yeah sure but we need to eventually figure out how to easily show which one we are currently"
"we should figure out a hairstyle we can swap between girl and not-girl" "alright I think it needs to have these features what do you think" "great okay let's start googling"
like. I need to quit trying to figure out what the one "real" me is and just remember to negotiate with the versions of me that I know I'm going to keep being at different times. on account of the genderfluidity
