I have never seen a healthy relationship. My parents sure didnt. Neither of their subsequent partners after their divorce were healthy relationships. My grandparents werent healthy and even if they were they were never really around. I dont know how to have a good relationship with anyone. I so rarely.get interested in anyone and it's never with someone who reciprocates. I forced my way into the last "boyfriends" life and it was just.... just codepency and I managed that one by hiding so much of.myself I wasnt even really me. This time I was brutally open about myself and scared the guy off I think not that there werent plenty of reasons he was a bad idea anyway.
I dont even think the cat likes me. He just has separation anxiety and needs me to feed him
