#this got lost

[shitokayimgay]

Okay so I need advice. I'm trans and every relationship I've been in was during the time I was closeted. I worry about getting back in the 'dating game' so many years later, because I'm stealth and (I've been told) I pass flawlessly. Right now I'm interested in a cis gay guy, who doesn't know I'm trans. What do I do? What is the best time to bring that up? I don't know his stance on dating based on sex or based on gender, and I don't know a not-awkward way to ask that.

WELL this is a really good question that i wish i had a good answer to.

however!!! honestly my best advice would be to shift the issue in question off of yourself and introduce it to him like that. so instead of starting off by saying youre trans you could start off by talking about a “trans friend” that you have or someone you supposedly know who is dating/thinking of dating a trans person and you could talk to him about his opinions on that. and then youll have a better idea of how he would react.

i know that might sound weird and complex but i think its safer and generally less awkward to introduce a scenario to the conversation before you disclose personal info that might create a bad situation for you.

[silvercaptain24]

Quick question Silv', what time is it for you? Its currently 12:20 am rn ofr me, curious how much of a difference there is

I'm an hour ahead

[anditsxsorrows-archive]

@gemscreams​ ~ cont’d HERE

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[miraclebyproduct]

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[azure-quill]

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[azplana-nia-blog]

tagged by: @hxdaleksakomtrigedakru

Name that you have gone by at some point in your life: Mostly everyone calls me Jen (boring but real) though my dad has called me Ginger, Ginger Rat, The Reject and Jenny Eccles at various points in my life. I also had a teacher who called me Fish for a while so. These days my bestie usually calls me some form of insult like hoeface or wifey. One of my best friends also said my boy name is Gerald which I feel like needs to catch on. closest holiday to your birth: Christmas?  relationship status w. the person who tagged u: The proposal was made and accepted so she’s my wife now. zodiac sign: Sagittarius  narrow ur siblings down to one trait:  My sister: Full on (yes that’s a trait now) my brother : sarcastic animal u love v much: I really want a pet tortoise so bad time: 3.48pm as I type this hello it’s me or you used to call me on your cellphone? :  hello it’s me random thing you just heard: the smoke alarm being set off in the kitchen by my parental unit trying to cook a Sunday roast. three things u don’t like:  Bananas, me, & rn so many people in this fandom what is ur drink order: It depends where I am do you own a real calculator: I used to but I have no idea where it is or if I even still have it how do you sit when ur blogging: lounging in my bed. is skype telling you that you have a message rn?: I’m not signed in rn because it was broke the other day and I haven’t checked if it was still working. movie that makes u cry: I shed an actual human tear in the cinema at Inside Out (you know the part if you’ve seen it) other than that the ending of Man On Fire never fails to make me emotional af no matter how many times I’ve seen it.  show u’ve been meaning to watch: I need to watch the rest of Jessica Jones because I’ve only seen the first 4 eps, more Ru Paul’s Drag Race because I’m obsessed, Breaking Bad because my sister won’t let me live and Sense 8 because I promised @ladyodair 4 million years ago that we would. last time u wore pants: I am now

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[evancauseschaos]

"I think you need to calm down."

"Me? Calm down? Whatever for?"