hey guys! it’s bec here.
it’s been a very long time since i’ve been on here (or on tumblr in general) and it’s time for me now to explain why and then bow out as gracefully as i can.
i loved every second i spent talking to everyone on here, giving advice and talking about love and all kinds of incredible and really gay things. anyone who’s been on here for a while knows that at a certain point that content stream began to slow and come to a stop completely.
the truth is that i’m just not the kind of person who can be on social media, especially with any kind of following or responsibility at all. as much as i loved everything i did here and am so proud of all the times i helped people, it wasn’t sustainable for my own mental health, and i felt unable to provide the honest explanation you guys deserved. this is it. i apologize deeply for how long it’s taken.
i’ve been meaning to do this for a while. i’m now a full-time college student in my sophomore year and don’t do much besides sleep and work, so it kept falling to the wayside. for those of you who’ve followed this blog for a while, you know i was one of two mods, and that we were in a relationship for quite some time. the other mod kept this blog going up until the middle of this year. unfortunately, that relationship recently ended, and that’s my cue. the other mod’s story isn’t mine to tell, but i’m leaving this blog in that mod’s hands.
everyone on here is so deserving of love, and i am so grateful for the time i got to spend with all of you. thank you for sharing your stories with me and letting me share mine with you.
as i said, social media and i don’t really mix, but for the time being i sometimes use twitter and occasionally instagram, and am, at the very least, reachable on those platforms. both of those usernames are @plantcrime.
be safe and take care of yourselves. keep loving boys. ♥
