The day that you read this, we will have just been married. And I probably cried as you were walking up the aisle, but it's because you looked beautiful and I love you so much. I don't love you simply because you are beautiful, but because I love you, you are even more beautiful to me. I'm not sure about the particulars, or which little things about you I enjoy the most - but I'm certain I feel this way.
My grandfather always told me that I shouldn’t make promises, because they imply that I won’t keep my word unless bound by oath. I already said my wedding vows, so instead of recording promises here, I’ll simply tell you what kind of husband I intend to be. I expect that you know me well enough to trust my word, and that you will keep me accountable. Please, never let me be lacking in fulfilling my duties to you.
I will always listen to what you have to say, no matter how busy or frustrated I am. I will always be devoted to you, and you alone - the ring on my finger will signify that, a constant reminder of how we are one entity. I will always try my best to do whatever you ask of me, because I know that we're a team and we work best together. I will always be there for you - just say the word and I'll drop everything - because you are now the most important person in my life. I will always love, support, and treasure you.
I simply want you to know that even now, when I am nearly twenty and at least a few years from marriage, I am thinking about you. I don't know who you are yet, but I hope to find you at the right time.
Your Husband,
Asher
P.S. If future me ever does anything stupid, just show him this letter and tell him to read his, too. I wrote one for him just in case he forgets how fucking lucky he is to have you.
