#this is misandry

[this-is-sexism]

this is sexism: talking seriously about misandry as if it were real, including transmisandry or transandrophobia or whatever flavor of misandry they invent now, is antifeminist and sexist and decenters women and is denial of misogyny and sexism, including denial of transmisogyny.

this anon is sexist, misandrist and transandrophobic.

[thisisexorsexism]

Exorsexism is that I had to fight my workplace to include non-women (men and non-binary people) in their forum about sexual harassment. They capitulated on letting non-binary staff attend (there were three of us and guess what our assigned sex is) but didn't allow any men, despite me talking to several who had been sexually harassed (and racially harassed) by a specific staff member who was the reason for the forum in the first place.

this is exorsexism and misandry

[columboscreens]

[koko-heads]

rory: i got five pieces of candy!

felix: i got a chocolate bar!

skye: i got a quarter!

ajay: i got a rock...

[this-is-sexism]

i go to an all girls school, and for some reason basically all my classmates hate specifically the sole male teacher. Nobody else. Genuinely, they complain about him taking a lot of time to grade stuff when. Genuinely he one, has a child, and two, is grading essays!

The other teacher that has to grade essays takes just as long, and nobody complains about her!

This is sexism and misandry.

[this-is-sexism]

girls liking traditionally "boy" things seen as okay, but the moment a boy likes a traditionally "girl" thing, they are immediately outcasted

This is sexism and misandry.

[this-is-sexism]

the way people who defend trans men against transmisandry/transandrophobia often need to cover for themselves by saying "not that misandry itself is real/systematic" or "it's transandro phobia, not trans androphobia" or some other phrase that downplays the hatred of MEN and it's impact. not to mention speaking of certain standards men are held to as being semantically not misandry but merely "toxic masculinity" or "misogyny that happens to affect certain types of men". lots of downplaying and pretending men aren't affected by these issues is misandry in of itself, how do people not get this?

now i completely understand that many people are just trying to avoid getting harassed and this isn't an attack on them but the immense double standards are rotting my brain cells whenever i read them. it always feels like people need to skimp and step around how much of a problem many assumptions about men actually are in society. and how much men are affected by their issues. and how a lot of that gets passed onto trans men because they identify as men. like i think that's an important thing to note here regarding transandrophobia.

not to mention that trying to avoid talking about misandry makes talking about transphobia of any variety even more confusing and difficult. we really need to acknowledge both misogny and misandry as real phenomenons that need each other to thrive, in order to combat transphobia and sexism in general, semantics regarding "oppression"/"privilege"/"systematic" or misogynystic mras be damned.

this is sexism, misandry and transandrophobia.

[this-is-sexism]

Today I saw a post about someone laughing at people who believe misandry is real... then in the tags there were multiple people joking "but for just a couple pennies a day..." or talking about how they wish misandry was real. I saw people encouraging others to make it happen and saying things like all men should be shot. It disturbed me

In case I forget, hide my name if I forget to mark anonymous.

This is sexism and misandry.