This is such a beautiful idea, but that's exactly what it is, an idea. I'm not using this only in reference to intimate relationships bcuz my husband @tom_nevins is probably the MOST accepting of me of anyone. I struggle with this daily, JUDGMENT, from people who don't know me at all and just assume or people who think they know something about me and that something is absolutely defining. Or even worse sometimes, people who do know me, sometimes they think very well, and the judgments they have are even more heavy bcuz they were there in the past. Is any one action we do a definition of who we are? No. What about many actions? Still, no. This is why I do much want to move and start fresh. Unless non judgmental people are only a myth. #judgement #letthepaststayinthepast #todaydeterminestomorrow