i respect Dana for the work she had to do for TOH to be at least somewhat complete.
but i still question her decision to have Amity work on herself / go through a redemption arc and not put any emphasis or attention on how Willow and Gus would feel about Luz dating her.
like, if one of my best friends was just suddenly dating someone who used to bully me and only just recently stopped ( when it wasn't even their own choice to do so, btw ), but has barely talked to me since, i'd be pissed off with both of them.
Willow said that what Amity did didn't automatically make them friends, but that it was a start of something. but TOH just didn't pay attention to that afterwards, didn't think about how Willow and Gus would feel about Luz dating Amity, and just had Amity invite herself over to Willow's house and then they're... friends again? and she's suddenly friends with Gus, too?
i wouldn't say that Willow and Gus would never approve of their relationship, but i will say that they, especially Willow, should've been allowed to have their reservations and feelings about the matter.
i just feel like Luz and Amity dating should've had some consequence, in terms of Luz's friendships. explicitly because she's friends with people Amity had, at least, done nothing to help when it came to Boscha.
is it really so much to ask that Amity didn't get off essentially scott-free? i love Amity, i really do, but it always felt like the show focused more on why she was the way she was instead of how that impacted others. or, if it did focus on the impact, it was more about how it impacted Luz.
this would be a complicated situation in real life, and almost no one would've reacted as Willow had, not even bringing up her grievances and essentially just prioritizing Luz's happiness over her own mental health, and Gus doing the same by association.
Lumity's cute, sweet, and taught me a lot about myself and my personal relationships. but it would've been really nice if their relationship had more of an impact than just on themselves, because Amity had already done that prior to them ever getting together.
Willow and Gus deserved to have spoken their thoughts on it, even be angry with Luz, instead of just put to the side.












