#tomme

[phasma-pleonexia]

Buck & Doe - Bifem Terminology 🩷💜💙

Buck: Also known as Stag or Tomme, is a bisexual woman that rejects gender expectations associated with womanhood or femininity.

Doe: Also known as Hind or Damme, is a bisexual woman that subverts or accepts gender expectations associated with womanhood and femininity.

Let Bucks and Butches stand in solidarity!

Let Does and Femmes stand in solidarity!

[mangosmoothies]

what I’m hoping for in the upcoming chapters is some lore drop of The Sphere with additional backstory to Tamsy, and honestly, along with a character death. It’s obviously in Tamsy’s plan to kill somebody, so we know a character death is imminent, and considering they’ll be disposable, it’ll be nice to get a monologue from him to further explain his motives before they off said character.

And I’m pretty sure we all know who it could be

While I love her so much, it’s implied she already suspects Tamsy. I don’t think she’ll have too much of an impact on Rudo if she dies, but then again, Rudo’s hypersensitive when it comes to the subject of violence and death. It really all depends on if Tamsy’s smart enough to figure out if she’s figured him out first lol

[mewmewmelody]

hi tomme

i think she would be a cute pastel goth pusheen girl

[phasma-pleonexia]

I think us bisexual women having our own identities is a good thing.

Tomme/Stag is a bisexual identity where a woman rejects the societal expectations of femininity and womanhood.

Damme/Doe is a bisexual identity where a woman accepts or subverts the societal expectations of femininity and womanhood.

These identities relate to a woman's relationship with men and other women, unique to her bisexuality. It isn't just about gender expression or aesthetics. It is about expression, but it's also about our experiences with womanhood, femininity, lifestyle, social livelihood, community, and our romantic and sexual experiences with both men and women.

I think us bisexual women should have separate identities from butch and femme, simply because our experience is distinct from a lesbian's. Regardless of whether or not butch-femme was inclusive to bisexual women back in the day, we're not living in the past anymore. We have evolved and moved forward. Bisexuality is a real and recognized sexual orientation now, and has a completely different experience from lesbianism. We recognize this in the current modern day 21st century. It's just the truth.

Now, this is only MY PERSONAL OPINION!!! I choose to use tomme/stag since it wouldn't only describe my relationship dynamic with other women, but with men as well, and a lesbian can not ever know what that is like. Just like I can never know the experience of a butch. My rejection of femininity and unique experience of womanhood as a tomme affects any romantic relationship I would be in with a man or woman.

Whether or not other bisexual women would identify as damme/doe or tomme/stag isn't up to me, but I think these identities don't get the love they deserve. We could seriously do great things with them.

[l-eaualabouche-analuthi]

Tommes Vaudoises Panées - L'Eau à la Bouche

Ces tommes vaudoises panées sont le secret d'un repas convivial réussi : leur croûte dorée et leur cœur fondant feront sensation sur votre table.

[aerithcloud]

I love how bad Tamsy is at actually faking his friendly nature when Tomme comes into the picture. She can automatically tell something is off, and she's not going to let it down.

[aerithcloud]

I love that Tomme is the only one aside from Corvus who seems to suspect Tamsy and his intentions. She's trained to read into and analyse her surroundings, and it makes total sense she'd clue onto him.

[richrosenthal]

Inspiration for a large, modern master bedroom remodel with beige walls, terra-cotta tile, and brown flooring.

Whitney Romberg