#toxicfriends

[sunnyspiritph]

Beware of people who aren’t thankful for everything you do for them! They can become toxic 😷

#sunnyspiritph #selflove #selfcare #selfimprovement #personalgrowth #bewareofungratefulpeople #ungratefulpeople #toxicpeople #toxicfamily #toxicfriends #youshouldbethankful #expressgratitudealways #begrateful #givethanks #appreciate

[eric-sadahire]

We are so close that I can’t tell who is the bad influence

[nourishtoflourishyes]

want,need,deserve

the pandemic has left a lot of time&space for me to sit with myself & my thoughts. a lot of time&space to figure out the things&people I want,need,deserve in my life. &those that I def do not.  I want a friend that puts in the effort towards our friendship just as much as I do (maybe even more? a girl can dream you know).  I need a friend that checks in on me even when I seem,look,act fine.  I deserve a friend that values me, as I am.   so this is our goodbye.  goodbye to the friend that does not check any of those boxes.  i do not want,need,deserve, the nothingness you are giving me. but I do want,need,deserve to stop thinking today will be different.  I do want,need,deserve to move on. 

[adviceformefromme]

You ever realised what you thought was a close friendship was actually a trauma bond? There’s nothing healthy about being overly invested in your friends problems to the point it starts effecting your own energy. I’m not talking about not being a supportive friend during crisis. I’m talking about the unhealthy friendship dynamic, when you’re playing therapist, on an intense rollercoaster being continually sucked into ongoing dramas on a daily basis. You might feel a deep connection, you might feel needed, you might feel worthy, but it’s not healthy, it’s actually damaging. You’re on call 247 to guide your friend through whatever’s going on, but as this happens continually, for months, years even the dynamic becomes even more unhealthy. This is not friendship. As much as you may want to play mother Theresa you need to allow friends to find their own path, and not rely on you for healing. 

I know someone needed to hear this today.

[davidwfloydart]

We could do ourselves a tremendous favour by letting go of the people who poison our spirit. #selfcare #selflove #poisinous #spiritualawakening #spirituality #toxicfriends #toxicpeople #toxicrelationships #toxicfamily (at San Francisco, California) https://www.instagram.com/p/CHBBeqMLiKQDbFhvTQueCa0vc0ky53u-Sr_p1M0/?igshid=5h5lrryvbffb

[asktheblondeenderman]

Y’all didn’t know this but lmao

My freshman year of highschool I absolutely hated. From being constantly called names to being emotionally manipulated by most of my friends there. Anyways I moved from the school as soon as I could.

XD

2 years later

Today I get a message from that old school saying that starting in March through April there going on lock down to avoid the Coronavirus.

Me:

[ninagichunji]

Must watch this signs in your friends just be aware if you have a frenemy or a real genuine loving friend😎 thank me later https://youtu.be/ciMuwMrUFR4 #ninathesimplekenyangal #friendship #toxicfriends #awarenessiskey #healthytuesday (at Perth, Western Australia) https://www.instagram.com/p/B72VRiilXxP/?igshid=1l45mg7tv68sk

[shop-isis-and-osiris]

Based on a true story | Mine 🙋🏽‍♀️ . I used to allow so much shit from people. I hate conflict and would avoid it at all costs. I’m just not that woman anymore . I say what the fuck I feel and do what’s best for ME. I’ve made this eternal shift within myself that’s hard to explain.... as you go through life , you reach different levels . My problem was that I was trying to bring everyone with me . Everyone isn’t meant to come ... some are stagnant in their lives and that’s ok. Their story isn’t mine and mine isn’t theirs . Some are meant to teach you lessons - MAKE SURE YOU’RE TAKING THE TIME TO LEARN THEM. 🙏🏽. These lessons are preparing you for the greatness that ahead of you. #blessed #unappologetic #evolution #evolve #growth #shedding #newchapter #blackgirlmagic #lgbt #vibe #toxicpeople #toxic #toxicrelationships #toxicfriends #conversion #empath #thirdeye https://www.instagram.com/p/ByCATVhldDN/?igshid=17cdxghn7s4kk