trans joy is so nice. first haircuts and first binders. shopping for clothes and feeling comfortable. looking in the mirror and feeling peace, not panic. a list of names in the notes app. "can you try using these pronouns for me? i think i like them more." other trans people who just get it. "this song/media/work of art is my gender" (no elaboration). getting gendered correctly. great surgery results and hormone updates. t4t couples. old trans people. pointing out the colors pink blue and white everywhere you go. all good stuff










