(Tagged because someone needed to educate you)
"oh but- DON'T CARE. ARGUE WITH THE WALL." Is you shutting down every argument that a woman or girl might present as to why we should be allowed to keep the female-only spaces that we and previous feminists fought for.
You're telling women and girls that our safety, lives, and feelings don't matter, and in fact, trans-identified-males should be allowed in the female-only spaces simply because they claim to be women, even though they clearly are not and never will be.
You're saying that we shouldn't be allowed to define or control our own spaces. You're saying that if it makes a trans-identified-male happy, then he's allowed to make women and girls uncomfortable, unsafe, and terrified.
You are saying that female safety, lives, privacy, and dignity are conditional, contingent on whether male feelings might be hurt.
You are saying that it doesn't matter if we are murdered, raped, abused, threatened or harassed, that it's more important that males get to make females feel and be unsafe by invading our spaces.
You are saying that we are not allowed our own spaces and that we always, without exception, have to just stand by while males invade female spaces.
Female-only spaces exist in the first place to get away from our oppressors, males. They exist because females deserve to not only feel safe but also be safe. They exist because females are a sex class subjected to male violence.
What you are saying is that women asserting boundaries isn't allowed, that it's cruelty.