"have you considered maybe it’s because trans people actually don’t give a shit what you prefer, we just want you to shut up about it around us because it has nothing to do with us"
uh. no. lesbians are not gonna shut up about the genitalia we are attracted to. it's like the whole point of being lesbian, durrrrr.
"have you considered maybe it’s because trans people did not consent to hearing you graphically describe what genitals you like to suck and fuck and we’re uncomfortable with being earraped"
if hearing lesbians talk about vulvas as the genitalia we are attracted to feels graphic to you, and like earrape, maybe you AREN'T SUPPOSED TO BE IN OUR SPACES? because what you're not gonna do, is transition into lesbian spaces & then expect us to be accustomed to your language "or else".
hey, it's a you problem that lesbians talking about lesbian sex is earrape.
"did not consent to hear" dude, what fucking strange language to use in this conversation. where lesbians are being softly coerced into preferences we don't have, "and taking this altered argument and making it into a joke" it's not funny. these videos are serious. you can't keep no true scotsman-ing yourself out of this phenomenon.
there ARE rapey people expecting women to be into genitalia that they aren't & it's so gross that you're using this kind of language to defend this. earrape, graphic, consent? have you lost your goddamn mind?
if you're uncomfortable around lesbians, who talk about lesbianism & lesbian sex, GTFO of our spaces! trans women transitioned to be alongside other lesbians. you can't & won't tell women to stfu because YOU are uncomfortable.
you're flat out denying lived experiences and pretending that it doesn't happen at all.
all of this is a YOU problem.
imagine transitioning into a group of people & then malding that the majority doesn't.
& no. YOU learn a thing or two about the lesbians you are mingling with. YOU listen to women's discomfort. YOU get your shit together & stop acting sensitive over lesbian discourse.