#trans!shiro

[giogio-golden]

T3rfs can pry my trans headcanons from my cold dead hands. Unfollow me now if you've got a problem with trans ppl.

On the flipside, I have so many hcs and would love to talk about em

[firewindmill]

Keith and Shiro are both trans and they're proud of it

I love playing with this headcanon and what could be their interpretations of masculinity. Shiro might have been conscientious of how far he wanted to take his expression of masculinity while not being caught up in toxic masculinity that trans men might fall into while finding themselves. Keith might care less of how people see him and lean towards the general vague concept of masculinity while still being okay with how soft he looks and doesn’t get hung up about what his anatomy is called. I might think that Shiro might have more access to resources which is why he seems way more adjusted, and has started his transition earlier whereas Keith might not have had the same access, money or resources for it but they bond over it and support each other no matter what.

[the-squirrel-queen]

Voltron theory

During the Kerberos flashbacks, Shiro is actually like 3 years older than Keith but he’s a trans guy on T so he looks buffer and bigger because future T is more advanced than T nowadays

[constel-langst-ions]

Genderfluid!Lance Part 2

Here, have the team reacting to genderfluid!lance.

@genderfluid-alien here’s a followup for the genderfluid prompt!

—

Keith sat in the dining room, shortly after finding Lance.

Shortly after he found out that Lance was genderfluid.

The team had questioned him when he arrived back in the kitchen, no Lance at his side. “He’ll be here soon,” Keith explained, guilt piercing his gut as he used the pronoun, “he’s just getting ready.”

Keith stopped himself in calling Lance ‘she. It hurt. He wanted to let Lance know they were loved, that he loved them.

But Keith couldn’t. Not yet.

And more importantly, how would the team react? Keith didn’t know why he said the team was accepting. He didn’t know, really. It wasn’t certain.

But the paladins were good people. Surely, they would come around?

Keith hoped so, especially when Lance awkwardly walked in, wearing a sky blue skirt and a white t-shirt, tucked in.

Oh, Keith hoped they would be okay with it.

—

Lance shot Keith a tiny smile, a slight lip curl.

She smiled even wider when Keith subtly gave her a thumbs up.

Maybe it would be okay, Lance thought.

She turned to the gawking team and confused alteans. She gave a slight wave, her pink necklace bouncing where it sat on top of her shirt.

Lance had done her own makeup, but it was simply. No popping eyeshadow or eyeliner, light mascara, light concealer. She didn’t want to go all out yet.

And yet, the team stared. Jaws dropped. Eyes wide.

“Hi, guys.” Lance said quietly, her voice a little higher. Lance had taken vocal classes, to train themselves in range so they could fit their voice with what they felt that day.

Pidge was the first to speak, adjusting her glasses. “Uh, what is this, Lance?”

“What is what?” She spoke, still quiet. But she had a teasing tone.

Pidge waved her arms at 'him’. “This. Arent you, like, a boy?”

“Seriously, Lance? This isn’t the type for jokes.”

“Oh, that looks wonderful on you!”

Allura and Shiro spoke at the same time, Shiro sounding annoyed, Allura sounding excited.

They looked at eachother, their words contradicting eachother’s.

“Well,” Lance said, “I’ve decided that today is as good as any day to come out.”

Lance inhaled.

“I’m genderfluid.”

—

The team stared, all except Keith and Pidge.

Keith already knew, of course. Pidge seemed to understand, so she simply pushed her glasses farther up her nose and shrugged.

“Oh, cool. You look good today, then.” Pidge said, her voice matter-of-fact, daring the other paladins to challenge her.

Hunk was the first to snap out of it.

“Oh, yeah, I agree with Pidge. Very pretty. I like the skirt color, too. It brings out your eyes.” Hunk grinned at his best friend.

Lance smiled at Hunk, arms behind her back. She was making herself appear smaller, Hunk could tell in her body language.

Keith smiled at Lance. “Nice outfit choice.” Was all he said, his eyes soft and gentle, welcoming.

“Genderfluid?” Allura and Coran both spoke, confused.

“It means I switch what I identify as most days.” Lance explained. “Just so you know, I have a white necklace for non-binary, pink for female and blue for male. Obviously, I’m female today.”

Allura walked to Lance, hesitantly tracing her fingers over the necklace. “Oh! I have old dresses and other clothes that you could have, if you’d like”. Allura beamed.

Coran sauntered to Lance next. “My.. Lance? Well. Lance, I accept you for who you are. I’m proud of you for telling us.” Coran spoke, giving Lance a quick hug.

Lance’s eyes landed on Shiro, who had not yet stood.

She uncomfortably shifted. “Shiro, I hope you accept me and agree to use proper pronouns, even if you dont like it.”

“What?” Shiro squawked. “Oh, no! Nononono! Im just, surprised. Uh..” Shiro shifted.

“Well, Im trans, so it just surprised me that there’s another someone who identifies as a different gender than what they were born with.” He gave an awkward smile, finally standing and walking to Lance.

They hugged.

Yeah, maybe it was going to be okay.

—

[potchip]

My final piece for the Spectrum zine ✨

@voltrans-zine

[astroxnot]

nonbinary shiro! another trans paladin for pride month!!!! it’s also my friend’s birthday today so hbd to them!! im gonna do pidge and hunk soon

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[hedonistink]

HedonistInk’s Guide To Writing Trans Men Having Sex

I wrote this up in response to another post but it really should have its own post here on my blog. The topic? Sex scenes involving trans guys, how to write them, and how not to write them.

There’s been a lot of trans male headcanons popping up in fandoms lately. And that’s awesome! As a trans guy myself, I love seeing trans headcanons by both cis and trans people! And there’s been a lot of fics & art involving trans dudes having sex popping up lately. And that’s awesome too! Hell yeah we can get down and do the do! Unfortunately... many of these headcanons, art pieces, & fics don’t portray trans guys, their bodies, and their sex lives accurately. And that’s... not so awesome. There’s some pretty icky stereotypes and commonalities going around. So I’m here to shed a little light on trans men and how we get down.

First, I’d like to start by saying this content is of a mature nature, please exercise reader discretion before deciding to read it and follow your local laws & restrictions regarding such content.

Second, I’d like to note that my ask box is always open to questions if anybody wants to fact-check their trans fic with an actual trans dude. I’m more than willing to help educate.

Now, on to the lesson!

HedonistInk’s Guide To Writing Trans Men Having Sex:

SEXUAL ORIENTATION: Trans guys come in all sexual orientations.

If a trans man is having sex with a man, whether that man is cis or trans, that is gay sex. They’re both men. Having gay sex.

If a trans man is having sex with a woman, whether that woman is cis or trans, that is straight sex. It’s a man and a woman. That’s straight sex.

Trans guys can most often be found fucking: gay men, bi/pan men, straight women, & bi/pan women. In other words: People who are attracted to men.

TERMINOLOGY: My number one issue with people who aren’t trans guys (eg: cis, nb, etc) writing about trans guys having sex is the words they use. Topping the chart: CALL IT A DICK, NOT A CLIT. Seriously.

Up top: The most standard term for talking about a trans guy’s chest is ‘chest’. A lot of pre-op & no-op trans guys are really not okay with having the lumps on their chest called ‘breasts’. So if you’re writing about trans men getting some action on their torso, you’re better off talking about his chest and nipples than his breasts and nipples. 

The pole: It’s a dick. It might be a small dick but almost universally every trans guy I’ve met calls it a dick or cock and either dislikes or is actively squicked by it being called a clit. I’ve had so many conversations with other trans guys where we salt about seeing cis people writing trans guys in fic & calling it a clit. Sure, there are exceptions, trans guys who use the word clit, but there’s also gay men who use the f-slur to describe themselves. That’s a personal use. It’s not the standard. It’s not the common term. It’s not okay if you’re someone who isn’t a trans dude writing about a trans dude having sex. It doesn’t matter if you’re cis, nb, or any other identity, call it a dick. It’s a dick. Call it a dick. It doesn’t matter if they’re pre-T, on T, or if they’ve had some sort of genital surgery. It’s a dick any which way. He is a man. He has a penis.

The hole: There is no standard term for what a trans guy is probably gonna call the hole he’s got in front. I know guys using: Cunt, vagina, pussy, front hole, front door, boy hole, bonus hole, and so on. Personally, I like cunt, it’s gritty and abrasive and feels the most ‘masculine’ to me personally. That said, whatever term you use, try to be respectful in using it and understand that not all trans guys want sex to involve that body part.

TO REPEAT: DO NOT CALL A TRANS DUDE’S DICK A CLIT.

COMING OUT: Coming out as trans is usually scary. Coming out as trans can be dangerous.

Trans guys who pass, meaning they are perceived as men by people they meet, will at some point have to come out to romantic and/or sexual partner(s).

Usually these conversations will take place well before anything gets hot and heavy but sometimes things get a little carried out of hand and things need to pause so they can talk.

The last place most trans guys want to be when disclosing they’re trans is in the bedroom with someone’s hand down their pants as an “oh, by the way”. There have been many of cases of trans guys getting attacked in these situations if their partner freaks out over it. General rule? Don’t write your coming out scene as happening in the bedroom.

BODY BOUNDARIES: Trans people in general have a different relationship to their body from cis people by virtue of being trans. So since we’re focused on trans guys, let’s get into that.

Not all trans guys have sex the same way. Not all trans guys are okay with using some or all of the body parts they have during sex. We each have different body boundaries.

I know guys who won’t get shirtless, guys who won’t take off their binder, and guys who strip shirtless without worry. I know guys who don’t want their chest touched and guys who are really into receiving nipple play.

I know guys who love getting blowjobs and guys who don’t want a mouth down there.

I know guys who don’t want their cunt touched, guys who are okay with only fingers in there, and guys who are all about taking things in the front door.

I know guys who don’t want any penetrative sex, guys who don’t care where you put it, guys who only want it in the front, guys who don’t want anything in their ass, and guys who are fine as long as it’s only going in their ass.

I know guys who exclusively top, never bottom, and have gorgeous collections of strap-ons to fuck their partner(s). Yes, that’s right, trans men can top!

These are just some examples and there’s no standard. Every trans man will have different body boundaries that they need to discuss with their partner(s).

BODY CHANGES: The body changes a lot on testosterone. So let’s get into some of those changes.

CHEST: Chest fat does lessen on testosterone, but not usually by much. That said, they do become a lot more limp due to binding over the years. Binding makes breast tissue basically wilt, break down, and go floppy. If a trans guy binds, his chest fat will become more limp over time. Easier to compress flatter, but also deteriorates skin quality for future surgery.

BODY HAIR: Holy hairy nipples, batman! Trans guys often get chest hair, just like cis guys. I’ve never once seen a fic talk about a trans guy’s chest hair. Trans guys also get happy trails, facial hair, thicker hair on our legs and arms, etc, and generally develop average male body & facial hair patterns. 

DICK: This is one of the most noticeable changes on T, and also the fastest. Most guys begin to notice their dick starting to grow within a few weeks of starting T. Most grow to around 1″-2″ when erect. There are many cases of guys getting as much as 3″ but these should be considered outliers and not average. It’s the trans dude equivalent of a cis dude with a 10″ dick: possible but uncommon. Wait, erect? Yep! It gets erect. You can definitely see when a trans guy has a boner if you’re looking at his dick! You can also notice that it has a foreskin just like an uncut penis! The labia may also become more coarse and similar in texture to a cis guy’s balls.

FLUIDS: Not all trans guys get dry downstairs on T. Some do. But I know a lot of guys who’ve gotten a lot more wet since starting T. It happens a lot. It’s a 50/50 shot, really. Bodies are weird. There are some sloppy, messy, slick trans guys and some trans guys who have to use lube daily so they don’t chafe or even use an estrogen cream down there.

SMELL: On Testosterone, the smell of a trans guy’s junk changes. You get Man Musk™ within the first 6 months. Anyone who’s been near a cis guy’s dick knows what I mean by that: that really sharp, earthy dick smell.

TASTE: After about 6-8 months on testosterone, a trans guy’s fluids down there stop tasting like going down on a cis girl and they start tasting a hell of a lot more like a cis dude’s precum. It’s a hormone thing. So giving a trans dude who’s been on T for a while a blowjob is gonna smell & taste a lot more like blowing a guy with a really leaky dick than going down on a girl. Cause that’s exactly what’s going on. 

ORGASMS: Orgasms also change on testosterone. Guys who could previously get multiple orgasms pre-T often can’t once they start testosterone. But they do usually report them being stronger and more intense. 

HAVING SEX: Trans men definitely don’t have sex like cis women. Because they’re not cis women. They’re men. They’re just men with a slightly different tool set in their tool belt.

Like I said under Body Boundaries, we use our bodies to have sex in many varied ways. Blowjobs, handjobs, rimming, vaginal fingering, anal fingering, vaginal sex, anal sex, I could go on for ages.

If a trans guy is taking a cis dude’s dick in his cunt, it’s still gay sex, not straight sex, and needs to be treated as such.

SAFER SEX & PREGNANCY:

Trans guys can get STDs like any other guy and should use condoms accordingly. Trans guys having risky or unprotected sex with cis men may be prescribed PrEP, an HIV-prevention medication designed to lower the risk of contracting HIV. 

Speaking of STDs, people can get gonorrhoea & chlamydia in their ass or throat via anal & oral sex. This will not show on a standard pee test. There are special swabs for the ass and throat. Most doctors do not routinely perform these tests. They really should. But, back to the point.

Some people think trans men can’t get pregnant. This is a myth. Some men think trans men can’t be on birth control. This is a myth. These myths are dangerous.

Trans men who are having sex with cis men can get pregnant unless they’ve had a hysterectomy. The risk of pregnancy is decreased but not eliminated by T.

Trans men on T cannot get estrogen-based birth control but they can be on progesterone-only birth control. Most large trans-affirming health clinics will recommend this for trans men who have sex with cis men. Generally, this comes in two forms: a daily pill known as the ‘minipill’ or a 12-week injection known as the ‘depo shot’.

MEDICAL PROCEDURES: There are many routes trans guys can take in terms of medically transitioning.

For most trans people, the first step is hormone replacement therapy (HRT). For trans guys, this involves Testosterone therapy. Testosterone is usually administered via injection every 1, 2, or 12 weeks, depending on which kind, or via a daily cream/gel. 1 & 2 week shots are self-administered while 12-week shots are done by a professional. Trans guys who come out as kids or young teens may be prescribed hormone blockers to prevent or halt puberty until they can start T when they’re 15-18 (age varies with local laws & doctor’s discretion).

Another step for trans guys is usually top surgery. Guys with tiny chests (small B or less) can get periareolar (’peri’) or keyhole surgery. This leaves only a tiny scar around the nipple. Guys with larger chests usually get a double incision (’DI’) surgery which involves larger scars along the bottom of the pecs and nipple grafts or, less commonly, an Inverted-T or T-anchor surgery which involves the same scars under the pecs but an additional vertical scar from there to the nipple while eliminating the need for nipple grafts.

Trans guys usually get a total hysterectomy, removing the uterus, ovaries, cervix, and all the bits in between. A trans guy who has his ovaries removed must be on some form of hormone therapy (eg: testosterone) or else risks bone loss & osteoporosis.

Some trans guys may opt for genital surgery. These procedures and the reasons why some trans guys might or might not want one surgery or another is a whole complicated topic in itself. But if you’re curious, look into metoidioplasty (’meta/meto’) or phalloplasty (’phallo’). Tread carefully.

So, I’ll wrap this up with my most important point, again: If you are anything other than a trans guy (eg: if you are cis, nb, etc), DO NOT CALL A TRANS DUDE’S DICK A CLIT. PLEASE FOR THE LOVE OF ALL THINGS SMUTTY, CALL IT A DICK.

And, as I said, anyone can feel free to message me if they have questions about writing trans guys having sex.

Tl;dr: Just be respectful and know your subject matter.

[Edit: 2018/02/21 - Updated Title to Current URL]

[bewitchingherz]

I’ve had some headcanon for trans Shiro, and I really wanted to draw it He only managed to get the top-surg after Garrison though the truth is i just really like white-haired shiro