#trans guy thoughts

[soupyboysforlife]

Top surgery gofundme

Hi! I'm Asher. I am trans FTM and queer. I like reading, writing, making things, watching TV, and scrolling through TikTok. I created a GoFundMe for my top surgery, it's linked below. Please share or donate, without this I'm not gonna be able to afford top surgery for years and years. The estimate is $10,350. Anything is greatly appreciated. If you'd rather support me another way my small business is @indieclosetcrafts on instagram or I have cash app and Venmo too (hmu for those). Please share and spread this.

Donate to Help Asher Afford Life-Changing Top Surgery, organized by Quinlan Sinkhorn

Hi! I'm Asher. I am trans FTM and queer. I like reading, writing, making … Quinlan Sinkhorn needs your support for Help Asher Afford Life-Ch

[transguythoughts]

It is easier to find a top surgeon in my area than a psychiatrist, who I need to talk to first in order get said top surgery.

Hm.

This is very inconvenient.

[bas-ill]

Hey this is super controversial but uh, trans men who love women are hella valid and also have a completely different dynamic to dating women than cishet men and women in het dynamics, or people in cis/cis relationships of any kind.

A cishet couple are told constantly that they're the norm and so, they don't have to do all of the activism inherent to queer relationships of any form.

we have a life experience that requires us to basically be experts on gender and sexuality to understand ourselves, which cishet people never have to deal with. We have been othered by cishet society continually, and even cisgay society never felt right for us because we aren't gay women, were not women. Due to this, our approach to how to engage with people romantically in general is different to either approach here, and we have a nuanced and important take on our dynamics and deserve to speak about our relationships within queer spaces without being either misgendered or being expected to have the exact same experience on sexuality as a cis person.

While its very important to acknowledge we are men and our relationship to women isn't gay in any way, it IS still a queer dynamic in its own way, and deserves to be validated and lifted up in the community.

(I am TME, trans women are women, trans lesbians are lesbians, this post is about trans men who are attracted to feminine gender identities, don't twist my words to try to be anti-trans in any way)

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[uncleghostt]

How do I know when it's time to start seriously consider going on T???

Right now it still feels like something that future me should be dealing with... but idk, when will future me ever be ready??

[soupyboysforlife]

Trans guy thought of the day:

I have done a lot of research(almost too much) and come to the unfortunate realization that I don’t actually want to be a man. I want to be a man written by a woman who writes gay smut. Irl* gay seggs seems…very…uncomfortable. And time consuming. And the way it was described to me, not nearly as pleasurable as one would think.

Edits!!!: I wrote this at like 2 AM so please pardon my poor wording. This was just my thinking, I’m positive that there are gay men out there who enjoy it and I’m not meaning to invalidate those who do. It simply doesn’t appeal to me as much as gay sex written by people who are AFAB. I have nothing against it and if you find it good then you find it good. I’m glad you like it.

[soupyboysforlife]

Trans-guy problem of the day:

Walking into the mens restroom, seeing all the stalls are full, and running out while cursing the place for not having a gender neutral bathroom and wondering if you are feminine enough to use the woman’s bathroom…

“Do I really HAVE to go?” Yes. This is how you get bladder problems.

[leonidas-king-of-sparta]

I'm killing the first cis man I see today with bloody fire

[tednivisonsghost]

I think I'd like to be a dad one day. But that kid will NOT be mine biologically. Fear of pregnancy and I have so many genetic disorders.