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Hello this is me summoning everyone who either is trans masc or knows a trans masc.

A while ago, I made a playlist that’s all songs that make me, a certified trans guy, feel…

A. like a guy

B. Hot as fuck

I mainly listened to it on days where dysphoria was really bad, and I found that it helped a lot. It’s like a nice little reminder that I am a guy no matter what my body looks like, and that I’m rocking it too. So I figured, hey, it would be awesome if I got a bunch of other songs from other trans mascs that make them feel the same thing and then threw them into the playlist. Or inspired them to do a similar thing.

So this is my call to action. What songs make you feel like a whole dude? What songs make you feel like you’re a model about to reject all the agencies that are below you? What songs have 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 trans guy energy?

Any suggestions would be awesome, whether they’re from big or small artists! And if you’re not a trans masc but happen to know one or two, ask them as well! I’m trying to get as many songs as I can :D

(Here’s the playlist I have so far for reference in case you want to know what I have already.)

lesvegas

passing in public makes me feel like white shrek

lesvegas

literally how it feels

sertralineman

about the "trans men did nothing in history" sentiment and the post i reblogged ealier. friends, i get being misinformed, but do i need to fucking remind you about billy tipton, a jazzman, who lived as his true self for 55 years, just to get posthumously outed and have a biography written about him, reffering to him as a "crossdressing woman"? or about Dr. James Barry, a prominent surgeon, said to "entertain the male role" for the sake of his studies even though he lived as a man in both his public and private life for 56 years, also outed posthumously despite him being adamant to not examine his body after death?

these are just two most well-known examples because the entire topic requires months, even years of research, but i want you to recall every single female historical figure you heard about who "dressed as a man to go to university" or "pretended to be male to do whatever" and genuinely think about how many of them could have been trans men or nonbinary people. just a little thought experiment, alright? many of them could've been cis, but i want you to just think about the possibility. think back to everything notable that women did in history, and ask yourself why trans men might've been grouped with them, okay?

the problem is that we'll never know, because us trans men have been stripped of our history and agency (a mix of misogyny and transphobia, and before anyone asks how do trans men experience misogyny, we are seen as women by anyone who does not respect our identity, that's fucking how you genius). the sentiment of "she was buried as a man but had female genitalia, definitely just a girlboss pretending to be a man!!! u go girl!!11!1" frames the entire idea of being a transgender man as "pretending" to "be someone else" to "escape the patriarchy", which invalidates our struggle and identity and is just as ridiculous as the transphobic belief that trans women are "pretending to be women" to gain access to women's locker rooms. being men is our truth, not a costume, any trans person knows how that works. so i'll have to kindly ask anyone who says "trans men were not as important to history as trans women" to shut up for a moment and think for even a second about how the world works, okay?

Back in ye olden days before I knew I was trans, I used to have a running bit with this girl who has the same name as my deadname. She was born after me, so I always said that she stole it from me. In turn, she would come up with increasingly elaborate ways that I stole it from her. Time travel, fortune telling, reading the stars, you name it. We battled for the right to own that name for a literal decade, with no clear winner.

But today, I would like to finally surrender. Wherever you are, you were right. A fortune teller read the stars told me to time travel to steal that name from you. Biggest mistake ever. She was a scam artist. You can have it back forever and ever :)

(Also you were always way funnier than me. Well deserved name.)

#trans #transgender #ftm #trans humor #transguythoughts #transmasc #transfem #trans story #transgender humor #lgbtq #lgbt #mtf #transmasculine #trans male #transpride

our-queer-experience

violently-puppy-deactivated2026

this is fucking sick hell yeah i love this

47-bunnies-in-a-labcoat

It rlly doesn't come across how huge this flag is until you notice there are people in this photo

our-queer-experience

i was so confused seeing all the comments about the people in the photo. like ???

you guys have to be gaslighting-

wait

WAIT

THOSE ARE THE PEOPLE???

ok. yeah. this is a million times more badass

catcake24

I think you still missed a few

This is FUCKING MASSIVE

our-queer-experience

OH MY GOD

uhhhhmanda

It's a whopping 55 x 35 feet!!!! The group that hung it is called Trans Is Natural, among whom is the magnificent Pattie Gonia: drag queen, environmentalist, and National Park ranger.

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Yo to any of you transmascs out there with voice dysphoria who can’t/don’t want to get on testosterone because of whatever circumstances:

Holy shit voice training works. Do not underestimate it.

For reference: the audio clips are of me saying the same thing at the age of 19 (before trying any voice training) and 23 (training my voice for three years using only free online tutorials. No professional training at all). I have the exact same amount of testosterone in my body in both (dear god not enough).

Is it perfect? No. Do I still want to claw my vocal cords out of my skin sometimes? Absolutely. But wow, I did not realize how much of a difference the little exercises I found on YouTube made until I heard this video of what my voice used to sound like. And with the way things are in the world right now, just that little bit of comfort does a lot for me. Would recommend giving it a shot!

#also I do not remember the context of the clip lmao #but now I can’t delete it #it serves as a benchmark too well #transmasculine #trans #transgender #ftm #transguythoughts #trans man #trans guy #transpride #voice training #ftm voice training #voice dysphoria #transgender man #transmasc #trans masc #trans ftm

pawberri

One weird experience of transitioning is failing at ur assigned gender role the whole time and everyone constantly deriding you for it but then u come out and it's like we lost a beautiful gender conforming warrior today. Must grieve for my wonderful child who pissed me off by being ugly and weird since day 1

beemovieerotica

something that should be taken with a grain of salt are the statistics talking about the high rates of mental illness + neurodivergence among trans people (ocd, bpd, adhd, autism, etc)

I see both sides of the political spectrum taking these studies at face value - conservatives say we're broken, and trans people try to come up with reasons why for example autism + gender dysphoria makes sense and why one of them feeds into another

at the end of the day you have to remember that we're the one category of people on this planet who are legally required to go see a psychiatrist in order to receive non-psychiatric medication and surgeries.

more trans people are in therapy by law than any other demographic of people, and as a result, this captures more comorbidities.

if I had to look at my own family & rates of mental illness?

mom, dad, 2 maternal aunts, maternal grandmother, paternal grandmother, sister, sibling, and me all have OCD.

7/9 of them are cishet, never been to therapy, never diagnosed. 2/9 are trans, required therapy for hormone treatment, and were diagnosed.

you don't have to do any math to just see that the resulting statistics end up intensely skewed.

and we can think back to how autism was virtually never diagnosed more than 50 years ago - ruling out any grandparents being included in statistics - and even my parents' generation (they're in their 60s now) wouldn't have been included either.

I don't think it's to anyone's benefit to accept these studies uncritically. a lot of these things are hereditary and far more prevalent in the overall population than people realize

nattousan

*doom music starts to play* I actually kindof like scheduling these kinds of appointments now...

but seriously Fellas, don't forget to schedule a pap smear every couple of years just in case. If you still have a cervix you can still get cervical cancer. ilu

this has been a psa

transgenderpolls

Trans people: If you disclosed your deadname to your partner ON PURPOSE, why?

simply for the sake of transparency

i knew they'd find out anyway and i wanted it to be on my terms

it was in the course of telling them about my childhood/past

bc they're also trans and i know their deadname so it felt fair

bc they need to know what to call me in front of ppl i'm not out to

bc they don't actually know that I'M trans

for another particular reason

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Voting ended onAug 2, 2024

transguythoughts

I just think talking about my “girl life” is kinda funny.

I will actively be like, “wanna see my old prom pictures? Aren’t they an atrocity?” Or “Ooh, wanna hear about the time that I tried to be hot in a feminine way cuz I thought that’s just what you did once you hit 16? Isn’t that such a wild take for my brain?” My deadname falls into that same category.

It is just so incredibly off brand for me now, that people are like “wtf that was you??? How??? 0/10 does not fit.” And I think I just find that very cathartic.

#trans #transgender #ftm #mtf #trans humor #transguythoughts #trans male #trans funny #transmasculine #transmasc

evamme

After r/traa shut down back on reddit I made sure to download this from it to make sure more people could see it in the future (besides, I couldn't let the $5000 someone spent on this gift go to waste). Colin Mochrie from whose line is it anyway talks to r/traa.

nekhcore

HEY YOU!

Yeah, you! Are you trans? Do you like reading books? Or watching movies?

Do you like media about trans men/transmasculine characters but don't know where to find it?

That's sooo crazy because I have this little spreadsheet I'm working on where I'm trying to document all media with protagonists/major characters who are FTM or transmasculine.

The spreadsheet currently has 300+ entries spread across the following categories:

Books

Manga

Memoirs and non-fiction

Movies

TV Shows

Graphic novels / Comics

Webcomics

Audio dramas

Books and movies are also sorted by:

Which character is trans (MC, love interest, antagonist, etc)

If the trans character is POC

The trans character's sexuality (Because I saw lots of transhet guys sad about only being able to find gay romances)

If the author/actor is also trans (if we know for sure)

It's free to use, and free to add to as well! Editing permissions are on, and I check on the spreadsheet every now and then to make sure everything is in order and to clean up.

If you know something that isn't on the list, please add it! You don't have to fill in every single column, but fill it to the best of your abilities.

If you don't want to use the big ass long link below, you can also use: bit.ly/FTM-protags

About short link: <a href="https://bit.ly/FTM-protags">https://bit.ly/FTM-protags</a>,Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/_nekhcore">@_n

I made this because I want it to be a community resource. So even if you're not a trans guy or transmasculine person, please reblog!

talisidekick

Unfriendly reminder that while you're busy mourning the loss of your childs old gender, claiming you need to mourn the death of your son/daughter, there's a group of boys/girls/enbies scrambling to take your kid clothes shopping, snatching up the chance to take those "first" experiences from you forever. Your sons first fishing trip is gonna be with his best bros, your daughters first makeover is going to be with her girl friends, your kids first camping trip out as themselves is gonna be with the besties. Good luck getting those bonding experiences back. While you're busy trying to guilt-trip your kid with your weird manufactured parental trauma, there's a whole community ready to take your place as the better family.

Your loss, someone elses gain.

Praying to any higher power that may exist that the trans people I stare down in public get my telepathic message of “Hey! Hi! You’re like me! Hi! Omg another cool trans person you’re so cool! Please speak to me, your fellow transgender!”

Praying even harder that should the telepathy be interrupted, the vibe does not come across as “I am a meanie transphobe and I will stare at you until you get out of my god-fearing midwestern grocery store.”