#transandropobia

[scootytooty]

"it's only a small amount of people" "remember that communities irl are much more welcoming!" "don't let the people you interact with on tumblr color how you view people in real life!!!"

1,770 people. one thousand, seven hundred seventy people. ONE THOUSAND, SEVEN HUNDRED SEVENTY PEOPLE.

but sure, tell me i'm overreacting.

[velvetvexations]

Velvet, we have gotten to the point of discourse in which people are saying it is a fucking privilege that when trans men(with Ehlers-Danlos syndrome) symptoms “go away” when they take testosterone. Then also use this as an example of why trans men are privileged over trans women, because when trans women with EDS take estrogen their symptoms can get worse. Mind you when they said “symptoms go away”, they acted like when you take testosterone all of your symptoms will improve 100%.

Mind you, yes, certain symptoms can start to see some improvement when you take testosterone. Mostly this is due to the effect of how testosterone affects the body, it’s thickens connective tissue It increases muscle mass this can help with pain and dislocation. It also might see some improve comorbid conditions such as mass cell activation syndrome and postural orthostatic tachycardia syndrome, but I’ve also heard from people that their comorbid symptoms got worse when they took t. If I got any of this latter part wrong, feel free to correct me.

And of course, this all was from a fucking self identified TME! This is what privileges is, apparently.

Also small note for the latter half because I’m afraid some people might misinterpret it. When they said privilege, they were talking about male privilege. Not like having a bit easier disability to manage or having less symptoms than somebody else, like they were talking about this being a privilege in the gendered sense.

People think medical misinformation is transfeminism now.

[whoryounow]

Just so you know, t4t, blahaj, being an "egg", being called "tranny" and so on and so forth is not "transfem culture".

It all has gone to the point when you'd rather say "calling yourself trans is transfem culture that was co-opted by tmes" than actually care for anyone who isn't a transfem.

[otaku-kin]

Ew. A horrible person.t

[tboygirl-discourser]

Pinterest bullshit yet again.

What. Seriously, what? So you're saying you're not attracted to cishet men but trans, gay and otherwise queer men? This implies that you don't see them as men but as another thing, othering them entirely. What the fuck is the point?

How can you even fucking tell? Can you only become attracted when you know someone's labels or do you just lose all attraction when you find out a man is cisgender and heterosexual? In practice it makes no fucking sense. Also there's the fact that there are cishet queer men out there like Aromantic men, Asexual men, Intersex men or even GNC men! There's also a point for Bigender or otherwise cistrans and Multigender men! Like????

Do you just mean conformist men? Just say that if that's what you mean.

[coldwater-pictures]

Reposting here in honor of this song finally officially coming out on March 29

[whoryounow]

TW mention of transphobic violence below

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Im endlessly great that this fucking pedo didn't get any support whatsoever and most comments are, in fact, judging her but still it's so wild to see someone say shit like this, literally fantasizing about transmascs being killed en masse.

She's literally no better than a nazi, why the fuck some people still defend individuals like this? Why the fuck some of y'all still go "uhhm transandrophobia DEFINITELY isn't real" RIGHT AFTER YOU INTERACT WITH PEOPLE LIKE THIS? WITH THE WHOLE TRF/RADFEM/ISFF CROWD?

And I honestly don't really think someone like that can even change. There is a length to someone's ability to reconsider their harmful worldviews and I hardly doubt someone saying shit like this would do that. And I also hardly doubt I'd genuinely believe it she really did, like you can't just say all that, then claim you've "changed".

[whoryounow]

Transmasculine bodies are so underloved and I'm so fucking sick of it.

And I don't mean "love" as something neither romantic nor sexual.

I mean it as awe and as pure worship.

If I were given a penny every time a "female" body was worshipped instead of a transmasculine one I'd be so fucking rich right now.

"But your breasts are so sexy why would you want to cut them off?"

"But why would you want to have a cock? I love your pussy so much!"

"But why would you want to go on t? This will make you into an ugly scary stinky man!"

"But why would you cut out your uterus? You could want to have kids in the future!"

"But why would you stop wearing dresses? You MUST break gender roles!"

"But why don't you won't your period? Some would literally DIE to have them!"

"But why wouldn't you want to get pregnant? You ungrateful cunt, you know how many people want to but can't?"

Our bodies are treated as less, as undesirable and as worthy of hate and then it's brushed of as feminism, as "just loving women!" as "just a joke!" and every time we try to complain as "a man talking over women's problems".

And then you question yourself why trans men don't feel welcome and why aren't they "showing up for you". Because they saw this from the beginning to the very end. They were told they're worth nothing more than a uterus and a pair of tits and a hole when they were seen as girls, they were told that loving themselves and giving themselves the treatment they need would be destroying their bodies. You claim to see them as men but you treat them the same - as a uterus, a pair of tits and a hole.

Every time you make a remark on how much you think phalloplasty is "butchering" you must be ashamed of yourself. Every time you catch yourself thinking about his bottom growth as "gross" you must be ashamed of yourself. Every time you think to yourself "he should shave" you must be ashamed of yourself. I'm no longer asking, I'm demanding to treat your brothers better and to start actually loving them not despite their changes, but for them. See the beauty in their creation and if you can't - you might as well pluck your eyes out.