“We need more weird queer people” Y’all can’t handle 90% of the ways multigenders label their sexualities

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“We need more weird queer people” Y’all can’t handle 90% of the ways multigenders label their sexualities
Accounts like this one:
Gender, sex, attraction/relationships:
[PT: Gender, sex, attraction/relationships:]
@androqueer-struggles (focused on the oppression and struggles of peritransmascs, intersex mascs, butches, etc.)
@this-is-misogyny and @thisis-misogyny (focused on the oppression towards fems and women.)
@this-is-antitransfemininity (focused on the oppression of transfems and people who are transfeminized.)
@thisisexorsexism (focused on the oppression of enben, aka people on the non-binary spectrum.)
@this-is-antixeninity (focused on the oppression of xenogender people.)
@this-is-multigenderphobia (focused on the oppression of multigender people.)
@this-is-internoirism (focused on the intersection of intersexism and anti-black racism.)
@this-is-varsexism-transphobia (focused on the oppression of sexqueer and genderqueer people.)
@thisistransphobia (focused on the oppression of trans people.)
@this-is-amato-heteronormativity (focused on how amatonormativity and heteronormativity negatively impact people.)
@thisishomophobia (focused on how homophobia negatively impacts people.)
@this-is-lesbiphobia (focused on the oppression of lesbians.)
@thisis-biphobia (focused on the oppression of bi and other m-spec people.)
@this-is-anti-objectum (focused on the oppression of objectum people.)
@this-is-automisia (focused on the oppression of autospecs.)
@thisis-aphobia (focused on the oppression of aspec people.)
@this-is-abrophobia (focused on the oppression of abro people.)
Race, ethnicity, religion, and culture:
[PT: Race, ethnicity, religion, and culture:]
@thisisracism (focused on the oppression of BIPOC.) @this-is-indigemisia (focused on the oppression of Indigenous people.) @this-is-asiaphobia, @this-is-orientalism, and @this-is-sinophobia-orientalism (focused on the oppression of Asian people.) @this-is-sinomisogyny (focused on the intersection of misogyny and sinophobia, which is the oppression of East & Southeast Asians.) @this-is-maori-targeted-racism (focused on the oppression of Māori people.) @thisisantisemitism (focused on the oppression of Jews.) @thisis-islamophobia (focused on the oppression of Muslims.) @this-is-xenophobia (focused on how xenophobia negatively impacts people.) @this-is-antiarab (focused on the oppression of Arabs.) @this-is-anti-romani (focused on the oppression of Roma.) @this-is-anti-paganism-animism (focused on the oppression of pagans and animists.) @this-is-anti-religion (focused on the bigotry against religions.)
Disability, alterhumanity, & public/social perception/status:
@thisis--ableism (focused on the oppression people with disabilities.)
@this-is-neuropsych-ableism (focused on the oppression of neurological & psychological disabilities.)
@this-is-physi-sensory-ableism (focused on the oppression of physical disabilities, sensory disabilities, and neuropsych disabilities that cause physical symptoms.)
[PT: Disability, alterhumanity, & public/social perception/status:]
@this-is-audism (focused on the oppression of deaf and hard of hearing people, including those with auditory processing issues.) @this-is-agorableism (focused on the oppression of disabled people existing in public spaces.) @this-is-deformimisia (focused on the oppression of people with physical deformities and/or disfigurements.) @this-is-seizurism (focused on the oppression of people who experience seizures.) @this-is-anti-brain-injury (focused on the oppression of people with brain injuries.) @this-is-anti-idd (focused on the oppression of intellectual disabilities.) @this-is-infantilization (focused on the infantilization of people, particularly disabled people.) @this-is-saneism (focused on the oppression of people with psychological disabilities.) @this-is-phobia-discrimination (focused on the oppression of people with phobias.) @this-is-depressiomisia (focused on the oppression of people with depression.) @thisis-suicidism and @support-for-the-suicidal (focused on the oppression of suicidal people, and how to support them.) @this-is-cluster-b-saneism (focused on the oppression of people with cluster B personality disorders.) @this-is-anti-bpd (focused on the oppression of people with BPD.) @this-is-a-trauma-response (a place for people to submit their trauma responses and/or coping mechanisms.) @this-is-pluralphobia (focused on the oppression of plural people/plural systems.)
@thisisfictomisia (focused on the oppression of fictionfolk.)
@this-is-anti-little (focused on the oppression of age regressors and syskids.)
@this-is-kinmisia and @this-is-alterhumisia (focused on the oppression of alterhumans.)
@this-is-anthromisia (focused on bigotry against the anthro community, such as furries, scalies, beakies, etc.)
@this-is-fatphobia (focused on the oppression of fat people.)
@this-is-lookism (focused on the oppression of people who have "unacceptable" appearances, often overlapping with deformimisia/disfiguremisia.)
@this-is-anti-homeless (focused on the oppression of homeless people.)
@this-is-classism (focused on the effects of classism.)
Other:
[PT: Other:]
@thisisparamisia (focused on the oppression of people with paraphilias, especially those with paraphilic disorders.)
@this-is-antikink (focused on the effects of anti-kink purity culture.)
@this-is-whorephobia (focused on the oppression of sex workers.)
@this-is-parental-abuse (focused on the effects of parental abuse.)
@this-is-peer-abuse (focused on the effects of peer abuse.)
@thisis-speciesism (focused on the effects of treating humans as the superior species.)
@this-is-bioessentialism (focused on how bioessentialism negatively impacts people.)
@inclusive-youth-liberation (focused on youth liberation for all types of children.)
Notes:
[PT: Notes]
This-is-transgynephobia, this-is-biphobia, and this-is-sapphicphobia is run by a racist mod [link] (more examples are under the cut*) who stalks people and makes tons of accounts, do not follow those accounts.
This-is-transandrophobia is an endophobe [link], do not follow that account.
This-is-transmisandry is paramisic (has reblogged content conflating pedophile/zoophile with predator, has them on their DNI on their personal account, has reblogged content promoting authoritarian censorship.) Please do not harass (this goes for the other accounts too, but I'm extra specifying that here cuz this is a minor.)
Thisis-paraphilicsocialostracization is an endophobe [link], do not follow that account. UPDATE: So the account removed the endophobic statement from that post, but it did exist. They also removed all comments relating to it, completely erasing accountability.
This-is-islamophobia doesn't support LGBTQIA+ people [link], disregards enben ("both genders"), and goes by the "respect but don't support" rule, which isolates LGBTQIA+ Muslims from the account and also perpetuates the idea that queerness is a sin or choice.
To the people telling me that not every @ works - the reason why is because Tumblr only allows 50 mentions per post. There's nothing I can do about it.
(*Examples of the mod's racism below.)
An issue the trans community has is still viewing nonbinary or multigendered people as still viewed as "basically a transman/trans woman".
The person's identity is viewed through the lense of whatever their AGAB is.
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Example: Somebody who was AFAB & is bigender is more likely to be viewed as a transmasc who just happens to have some femininity added in. They are still expected to consider themselves a man, transition in a way that's 'typically masculine', & abandon their own womanhood.
The moment this person expresses their womanhood in any way their identity is immediately called into question. Because the trans community cannot imagine people who are not in the FTM/MTF binary. Your experiences *must* fit the most typical model of what people experience.
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Nonbinary people who are agender/similar have a similar experience.. their AGAB is always called into question to see what category they "really" fall into. You can't just be nonbinary & not connected to transfeminity (trans woman lite) or transmasculinity (trans man lite), we need to figure out where you 'actually' belong..
That's why you see so many more people going "are you transfem or transmasc?". Even though it carves out a larg portion of the community, people only see two categories and must force you into their binary.
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This isn't even touching on how the lack of grey area immediately screws over any intersex person either..
People have decided thay AGAB=where you're transitioning. What your identity "really" is, and it is nothinh less than transphobic.
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The people in the community who enforce things like this need to start deconstructing sex & gender more than just "sometimes you're born in a girl body but you're actually a guy" & vice versa. You cannot claim to support your fellow trans people without putting in the work to support them all. This needs to end.
We're so backwards nowadays.
It's not women's reproductive rights. It's the reproductive rights of anyone with a uterus and the ability to fall pregnant. There are women who cannot due to surgeries or infertility, there are intersex folk who do, there are trans folk who do and aren't women, there are multigender folk who do and aren't women or are women and other genders. It shouldn't have to be seen as these people misgendering themselves when they're talking about legislation that directly impacts them.
HRT is not birth control. Just because someone is on testosterone does not mean they're not impacted by these laws. Not all trans folk who aren't transitioning to women are on testosterone, some are on estrogen and it's none of your business why (whether they're intersex or not), you just have to respect it and include them in the conversation.
Why are people so against shifting language to be more inclusive?
"Ladies and gentlemen" should be distinguished guests/folks (or something else along those lines.)
"Men, women, and children" should be adults and children.
"Girls and boys/men and women" should be people. Or, if you must, girls, boys, & enbies or men, women, & enben.
"Brothers and sisters" should be siblings.
"Aunts and uncles" should be piblings.
"Nieces and nephews" should be niblings.
"Mothers and fathers" should be parents.
"Sons and daughters" should be children.
"Husbands and wives/boyfriends and girlfriends" should be partners.
"Masculinizing or feminizing HRT" should be T or E, or - if you want to be more specific - androgenizing, micro-androgenizing, estrogenizing, micro-estrogenizing, androestrogenizing, or micro-androestrogenizing.
"Transmascs & transfems" should be trans people (as transandrogynous, transneutral, transnull, transgenderless, transxenine, transoutherine, transaporine, multigender, and mixed gender people also exist.)
"AFAB and AMAB" should be raised/perceived as female or raised/perceived as male (as intersex people can be given reassigned genders after birth and/or socially imposed genders, meaning that they could be raised/treated in contradiction to what they were assigned at birth)
Why is it that, even in the queer community, binary concepts of gender and sex are still pushed?
(This isn't referring to your own personal connections. For example, if you have only aunts & uncles, saying "aunts and uncles" isn't wrong when referring to your own personal family. Its when you apply this as a generalized statement about other people that it becomes an issue.)
This just in: Multigender people are intentionally being transmisogynistic if they choose not to disclose their assigned gender.
That is. Certainly a take.
(Context of this reply: A discussion on how genderqueer/multigender people who were assigned female don't want to say that they were assigned female because they want to escape accountability for being transmisogynistic and don't want to be seen as TME. And not because, you know, trans people don't owe you knowledge of their agab and it's quite frankly transphobic to demand that)
Important notice: the tools people used to affirm their gender, does not tell you anything about that person‘s gender identity!
There are transfemmes who chest bind, there are transmascs who get laser hair removal, there are plenty of intersex folks who take E or T, there genderqueers and transneutrals/others who have had a Mastectomy or Vaginoplasty. There are plenty of transgender and intersex people who have some type of combination or none of these things.
Clothing doesn’t have gender, and neither does hormones, procedures, pronouns, or treatments!
ppl really need to learn about the concept of de-gendering, purposefully calling someone who uses gendered pronouns "they/them" is de-gendering, saying you cant be both mlm and wlw but have to be nblm and nblw is de-gendering, saying you can't be a lesbian if you're a bigender boy+girl because you're part boy so you have to call yourself "trixic" or some other gender-neutral label is de-gendering, treating nonbinary people who are binary genders as if they arent their genders but are some third identity is de-gendering, saying bigender and genderfluid people arent actually their genders but are just "bigender" and "genderfluid" or just "aligned with masculinity and/or femininity" is de-gendering