Jun 6, 2021
i hope all trans mlw and trans wlm have a great day today :)
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i hope all trans mlw and trans wlm have a great day today :)
transhets are cool, actually
from the bottom of my heart as a trans man, i love trans women. you're all stunning and brave. you're doing wonderful, ladies
being a transhet man is hard. because i always either feel excluded or demonized for my attraction to women. i love women and the way i love them is not the way most cishet men love women. being a straight man makes me feel euphoric, it reminds me i am a man, a boyfriend, a husband. i always felt so out of place when i identified as lesbian, but now i feel safe and comfortable as a man who loves women. i feel strong and masculine i guess, whenever my girlfriend calls me their boyfriend. it brings me joy. i just want to love women (and some nonbinary people too) without feeling like i am seen at the same level of cishet men.
me, age 10: i wonder what if would be like to be a polite gentleman and take a lady to the ball and bring her flowers........i just don't like boys but i wouldn't mind looking like one...................
me, now, realizing how oblivious i was as a child: 🤦
i want a pretty girl to kiss. sigh
i think it's funny to look back at me in middle school and how i would make my original characters like "very greasy yet dapper gentleman who loves his wife and lives on a farm and looks almost identical to me but a guy" and then it took me till i was 16 to realize i was trans
i got called a straggot for saying the "straights are gross" jokes are very alienating for transhets. like,, dude just say cishets. my experience as a transhet man feels very queer and different because i'm transgender. i already have to deal with feeling predatory, don't make it worse by shunning me from my own community with the "oh no a straggot" comment. fuck off bro, let me live. my love for women and my sexuality is important to me just as it is for other lgbtq people