Im just gonna tag as many ppl as i know, im so sorry i left for so long, school and mental/physical health have gotten in the way of posting/chatting, but i’d appreciate if you could help me out with this.
http://spot.fund/MedicalTrasitionCost
“hey! i am an FtM male from San Antonio, Texas, trying to raise money to cover the costs of medically transitioning. I've known since i was 7, came out at 11-12, and am now 15, and at a good age to begin hormone therapy. the state of texas does not cover any transition costs through healthcare insurance, leaving me and my family to pay for the treatments and procedures out of pocket. 2021 has just begun, but this year, im ready to take my life into my own hands and kickstart my happiness. any amount of money will help me. if you cant donate, please share, it would mean the world to me. the doctors visits are $197 per session, the injections $40-90 per month, and top surgery can cost $3,000-10,000. if you've taken the time to at least read this far, thank you so much. i appreciate this.“
@indecisivedolly @dance-in-moonlight @thewaythatwerust @dontrubiceeontheshampoobottle @countingpathss @xsleepylilgeekyx @waywardork @tinkerbellscraft (I'm so sorry for tagging you guys y'all are the only ones I can think of rn)
I stumbled upon a website that let's you try out different names in sentences (tw only girl and boy options and it's a baby naming site so yeah) but you can put middle and last names too!
See how the name John will sound in the real world
One thing that might help if you have vocal dysphoria is to look up voice control techniques and drills actors use and practice with them. Once you have a certain degree of control it's pretty easy to make your voice sound how you want it to.
This is good advice, and I’m glad to hear that it’s fairly easy. I’ll post this so anyone else who is interested in this discussion can benefit.
I am personally pretty okay with my voice as is. Not even hrt would fix the problem I actually have with it. Maybe I should look into primal scream therapy lol.
Hi, again! I’m still trying to raise money to start testosterone and change my name!
In unrelated news, I’ve recently gotten a LOT of practice doing tarot readings and pendulum readings, and I’ve become a lot more confident in my ability, so here goes...
Buy me a coffee ($3), and I’ll tell you your future! (or answer some questions, at the very least)
Pricing info under the cut!
1 coffee ($3) will get you one of the following:
One 3-card reading with two follow-up 1-card answers.
Three yes or no questions on my pendulum with possible two follow-up questions.
2 coffees ($6) will get you one of the following:
A 6-card reading on a relationship (friendship/romantic/etc) and barriers in it.
A significant life event reading involving (typically) 7 cards, though sometimes more for context.
Any in-depth reading using 5-10 cards.
A combination 3-card reading with two follow up questions, as well as 3 yes-or-no related questions.
3 coffees ($9) will get you:
An in-depth relationship reading starting from the same spread as before, but allowing up to 15 cards.
Any in-depth reading using more than 10 cards.
I am offering readings from any of my three tarot decks:
Maggie Stiefvater’s Raven Prophecy tarot deck
the Wild Unknown tarot deck
and the Skeleton Tarot (by catrocketship on etsy!)
To get your reading, buy me a coffee (link in my bio), and send me proof via dm, along with your initial question or desired reading.
I am willing to do readings on a lot more topics than listed here, these are just standard spreads that I use.
After purchasing your coffee, I will try to answer your question within 24 hours! If I cannot meet that deadline, I will inform you!
Im planning to get top surgery and to legally change my name- do you have any advice on which i should do first?
Hey there,
I have no advice on which to do first but getting top may help you change your name.
While top surgery or changing your gender marker are not required to change your name, a judge may approve a name change more quickly if they see you are transitioning. They could still do this if you weren’t, but it may be easier.
Other than that the order is totally up to you! Think about what you need more urgently, as both take some time to accomplish, or you can start both processes whenever. It can be nice to have your name changed when you go through the process so there is no accidentally dead naming you, though my surgeon and office were really great about this, not everyone is so lucky.
I got top surgery first because I am unsure about a name change. There is no right order
Hey, I really hate to do this, especially as tumblr is going down the drain, but it’s Christmas time, I just moved back in w unsupportive family, I’m broke and I lost my binder before I moved.
I’m in desperate need of a new binder to help alleviate my dysphoria. If I feel more comfortable in my body I’ll also be able to function better when I get a job and will be overall at least a bit happier in this situation.
If somebody could gift me a GC2B full tank binder, I’d honestly cry. I would ask for donations or some such thing to buy it but I have no bank account and no PayPal to save money on, so it needs to be a full bought gift. Luckily gc2b has a gift option on its website! I won’t be getting anything fancy, one of their full tank binders in purple, $35 and shipping.
If somebody could do this for me, I would be so so grateful I can’t even express it. It would be an amazing Christmas gift if somebody could spare it. If you can’t afford to, a signal boost would be amazingly appreciated.
If you’re able to gift me a binder, please IM me here on tumblr and I will give you my email to send it to and can link to the exact listing I’m talking about. Thank you for spreading this and I hope everybody has a good holiday no matter what you celebrate 💜💜✌🏻