Genuinely though, how is a Sub supposed to find a Dom in the first place? It feels like a borderline Herculean task. Am I supposed to just, talk to people in online communities? Engage in social activity with a friendly and open minded group of people? In this economy????
I feel like I'm the wrong person to ask since until recently I'd consider myself a digital hermit. Plus I've been trying off and on for well over a decade now, with decidedly mixed success. But like... your instincts aren't wrong. Pick a kink you're into and find a community for it. Chat with people, make friends. At worst you'll feel less weird and isolated and alone.
Idk, that's all I got really. Lemme know if you figure it out, I could use some pointers














