I can't look through today but I have your page bookmarked, thanks for that.
I honestly always thought the porn industry was fucked up, but I kinda looked at it like... Say someone wants to go to a plastic surgeon to get their nose done. They either have the money to go to a place that's safe and will do the job right, or they don't have enough money to go to a place like that and so they go to a place that looks a little bit iffy but they want the job done as soon as they can.
Stoya can go to the nice place of course, and people like her.
So I always kinda split it in my head that, even tho I don't watch that kinda porn (I watch porn between real couples, cute shit mostly), some of it is good and some of it is bad, but yeah, it is hard to know which is the safe one and which isn't.
Only recently have I come to realise that violence in sex is actually a huge kink among women tho? Especially choking and face slapping. I see people crave that stuff on my dash all the time. I see Stoya, someone who apparently loves her job, liking that shit done to her, too.
So I just kinda thought that at the same time, most, or at least... a lot of women were generally into this violent-ish stuff. But yeah you're right tho, we don't know if its consensual or not and some women may hate it, but recently it just seems like the majority like it. Certainly not me tho. I despise it.