can i send all the valentines day asks (or i can choose if you want LOL) !!!
HONESTLY I SHOULD’VE SEEN THIS COMING lmaooo
S’all good, I’ll just answer all of them ♥
first date: describe your ideal first date.
Ehehe I’ve answered this before but...something lowkey. Wandering bookstores, or going to a garden, or a cafe. Something like that.
first kiss: what’s the best way to be kissed?
Just...no tongue.... It weirds me out. Kissing is still kinda-sorta a trigger for me b/c of trauma-related stuff but l m a o. Idk man, I don’t really know.
preference: sexuality? what’s your ‘type’?
Queer, with a heavy preference for women. Uhh, someone I vibe with, who can kind of keep up with me in a conversation, a dark/macabre sense of humor. Also I tend to go for people who wear glasses ahahaha
blush: what could someone do this valentine’s to make you feel special?
Already done and done ahaha. The YGO Joey card was very cute ♥
hand holding: do you like pda?
As far as hand-holding and kisses on the cheek, yeah. That’s about it though - anything else makes me really uncomfortable.
family: how important is your family’s approval of your s.o.?
Pretty important, actually. My mom’s a really good judge of character, so if she thinks something is amiss I’d take her concerns seriously.
doves: what’s the most romantic thing someone’s done for you?
Um.... I actually can’t think of anything? Maybe my ex-gf buying me some books from my favorite author that I didn’t already own ahaha
love hearts: where were you when you met your crush?
candy: favourite thing to eat on a date?
??? Hm. Anything really? Depends on where we’re at? I love desserts, though.
100th date: would you prefer to stay in or go out this valentine’s?
roses: do you like picnic dates?
giggle: what’s more important in an s.o.: intelligence or humour?
Humor, I think. Me being pedantic but there’s so many types of intelligence that it’s hard to just say ‘yes I want a partner who’s intelligent’... like I’d like someone who can kind of keep up with me, but honestly as long as the person is willing to listen to me ramble it’s all good.
lace: who looks best in your favourite colour?
Everyone looks good in black lmao
cupid: have you ever been set up? have you ever set anyone else up? how did it go?
Aah....kinda-sorta? We got together, but then they broke up with me for being ‘too intimidating’.
lovebirds: at what point in a relationship would you make it ‘public’?
I’m like, if the person and I have confirmed that we’re in a relationship then I’d be open about the fact lmao
love knots: would you like to forget the person you shared your first kiss with?
Yes. My first kiss was actually super traumatizing lmaooo
promise ring: who do you see yourself being with in two years?
If I wind up dating someone this year, then my partner ahaha. I don’t do casual or short-term dating.
Cheesy but, ‘Friday I’m in Love’ by The Cure and ‘Songbird’ by Fleetwood Mac
aphrodite: how important are looks?
Important to an extent. I like cute/pretty people lmao but it doesn’t extend to body type.
angel: do you like ‘bad boys’ or sweethearts more?
oH LORD I got over my ‘bad boy/bad girl’ thing a long time ago, so definitely sweethearts.
harp: have you ever written a poem for a crush?
I have ahaha. It was very bad because it was back in the Myspace days.
red: where will you be spending february 14th?
On campus, taking exams. ; __ ;
love notes: who was your last valentine? where are they now?
Current valentine is at home, eating seaweed ahaha. My last valentine was my ex-gf a few years ago. I don’t know where she is now, but I hope she’s doing okay and is happy.
flowers: what’s the best romantic gift to give someone?
Something that’s tailored and personal to them. I’m definitely more of the ‘it’s the thought that counts’.
st. valentine: what are your hopes for love this year?
I’m pretty blase about love/romance - if it happens it happens, if not, that’s okay too. Friendship is just as important to me, if not more so, than romantic love.
