Superlords but they're toxic to eachother but like consentual and both are into it
Like for example, especially in public, Damian often treats Jon as a pet or below him, someone at his command (which Jon gladly is). Jon is his tool, his possession and his lover.
Meanwhile back in private the dynamic switches and Jon has the upper hand, allowing Damian to be vulnerable and making the prince kneel for a change, taking control away from him so he can relax and stop thinking for a moment.
They love each other so much it's sickening and the way they show it is a dance between tender & sweet and very clear power play








