#vibes ask

[lmk-vibes]

YOU!!! WE BOTH FELL INTO LASERHAWK HELL AT THE SAME TIME?!??

:00!!!!!!!! YEAHHHHHHH

[mandoblowmybackout]

I didn’t know ADD/ADHD had hyper sexuality as a symptom.

I just thought I turned toward masturbation due to boredom, and that regularly needing to finish several times (5-6) was like a response to stress or something. (I mean it kind of is, now at least. My meds have messed with my libido, but lately, I’ve been stressed out, and just need it)

Before meds it was basically every night though, def didn’t help when I developed RSI either.

Couldn’t get toys, for a few reasons, ended up getting those cheaper electric toothbrushes in a multipack. *improvise, adapt, overcumcome*

I don’t know where I was going with this, gratitude was def the feeling I had when I opened up the ask box though.

So thanks

Hey hi! So I held onto this because I’m terrible at remembering stuff (out of sight out of mind) and then I made a response and saved it in my drafts and it got EATEN and now I’ve found it- you should also know I read it like a million times because I am AMAZED at the response I’ve received on Vibes.

Like, thank you so much for sharing this with me? I’ve been seeing therapists for YEARS and none of them have ever been able to tell me ‘hey this is probably because of xyz’ (in this case adhd)

I spent years being ashamed of my libido, and how I would run my partners ragged, and then I realized I was happier single because I didn’t have to get someone else involved when I wanted to get off? (This will be explored in the next chapter btw lol)

You should know that boredom is absolutely one of the reasons for this and other ADHD connected symptoms, particularly the ones associated with pleasure seeking behavior— and stress (in my personal experience and research) can amplify those symptoms, too. It’s definitely not a coincidence that as your life gets more stressful, you’d look for ways to make yourself feel better- and let’s face it, masturbation is (usually) one of the easiest/fastest, least disruptive ways to do that, especially for us ADHD peeps

Anyway, thank you again for this message. It’s really nice to know I’m not alone, and it makes me happy that I’ve been able to share this with people so they can discover the connection between ADHD and hypersexuality too. (Hopefully it’ll save y’all some of the distress it caused me)

Also— I couldn’t use toys until recently either, and I wrote Vibes the very first time my vibrator broke, so…😅

[madiesunny]

Using only emojis... What kind of vibes do I give off??

[ineedbackgroundmusicinmylife]

UNICORN SPARKLESSSSSSSSSS

Hehehehehehe

You got it right Cee

I will not hesitate to break kneecaps :)

Thanks for the ask 😊

[saintvellum]

url gives me prestigious harvard yacht boy vibes but the rest of ur acc gives off parisian art museum curator vibes

this made me laugh so much, love you anon

[admdmrtn]

e4# 👏🙌

MEG MEG MEG MEG BIG TEA I LOVE TEA DNDJSKKSKS and cherry blossoms again omg aaaahhh 🥺🌸 also i’m actually pretty surprised a few people have tagged me as the denim jacket DHDJJDKDKD

[heleneplays]

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Gay Vibes x 69, Bitch Vibes, Edgy Vibes, Soft Vibes, Chill Vibes, and-- is it Clown vibes bc there's that one emoji that won't load

YOU DID IT!!! YOU CRACKED ME TO MY BAREST ESSENTIALS